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20th November 2008, 04:44 AM
|  | Gold ILite | | Join Date: Jul 2008 City: Chennai State: Tamil nadu Country: India
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| | Fate of life
Hai.
I am Andal from Chennai.
I just wanted to share my few thoughts about the sudden end of one's life. My sister who was hale and healthy upto April 9th of this year suddenly got breathing trouble and just for check up she went to Hospital. Immediately she got admitted in the ICU. Till Aptil 9th evening, she was speaking to us, teasing her husband that just to escape from her he admitted her in the hospital etc. Immediately at that night she got severe breathing problem and went to coma stage. Upto April 17th she never regained and just bid farewell from us.
I was so attached to her and I couldnt digest this. After one's death only we are realizing their value.
Her death changed me a lot. Now I am just visiting all my relatives, never scolding my children and no back biting of any one. Bcoz everybody has their own merits and demerits.
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20th November 2008, 04:52 AM
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Dear Andal,
I'm very sorry to hear that.
You are right! We only know the value of the person around us when we lost them..
Regards,
Vashini
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20th November 2008, 04:59 AM
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Dear Andal(swathi),
Its disheartening to know that your sister passed away within a short span of time and for a reason like breathing trouble.
No words can console you dear..Time is the healer...
Andal, its just that everyone has to go one day....but we do not know when our turn awaits..thats it.But,we are bonded with our siblings, parents, friedns and relatives, that their loss make us suffer no end -i totaly agree.
But, cheer up..
Pour out all your feelings here at Indusladies and we are here to give you mental support and strength.
Its just good that you have changed a lot dear..Think it as a blessing.
For now,bye..but do come here whenever the need be.
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20th November 2008, 05:32 AM
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Hai friends.
I thank all for their concern.
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20th November 2008, 09:16 AM
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Hi Andal,
My condolence to you and your family members.May her soul rest in peace.Be brave.
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20th November 2008, 09:22 AM
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Dear Andal
I am very sorry to hear that. May God provide you and family members strength to get through this difficult time.
Time is the best healer. Take care.
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20th November 2008, 12:10 PM
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Andal,
very sorry to hear this news.
May her soul rest in peace..
Can understand how you would have gone through that time..
Glad to know that you took this in the right sense and changing..
God be with you and your family..
sriniketan
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20th November 2008, 04:34 PM
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Andal,
Very sorry to hear this news ! Praying for her soul to rest in peace !
Could understand your feelings. Take care of yourselves !
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20th November 2008, 07:12 PM
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Dear Andal,
I am very sorry for your loss. May her soul rest in peace.
She will always with you and your family as your guardian angel. Time is the best healer. Take care of yourself.
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20th November 2008, 10:14 PM
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Dear Andal
So Sorry to hear ur sister sudden demise..nothing is in our hands..
Everything is god's wish.
I pray in god to give strength to you and all at home to bear this separation.
May her soul rest in peace.
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