If Your Husband or Lover..?

Hi Mals,

Yet another one from you about 'husbands'....hmm, you r gathering a lot of information from us for you to choose a right man???? None of these would ever come up in a married woman's mind 'coz she would be with all the chores at home and office. Agree ladies?

Anyway, mine is for the last choice! A little help would mean a lot. But it has got to stop there as more would mean trouble and double work for me

Poornima.

Hi Sowmini,

Your post was filled with so much love.. hey friend you are totally all for him and wow.. what a match . what a couple.. with so much love which your neighbours would definitely be envying... What say..

Thanks my dear for being here with your valuable post as always...

Hi Puni88,

Like someone said there should be a bit of sense of humour and so goes with the word CARE. It is essential not only in marriage but in all relationships. I understand what you want to say. Thanks for being here my dear friend.

Hi Mindian,

Your reply actually made me laugh...

Thanks for writing in here...

[quote=PoorniDaya;280831]Hi Mals,

Yet another one from you about 'husbands'....hmm, you r gathering a lot of information from us for you to choose a right man???? None of these would ever come up in a married woman's mind 'coz she would be with all the chores at home and office. Agree ladies?

Hi Poorni,

Stay with me for a day and understand how my life goes .. I spin throughout the day... Not all unmarried woman play cards and not me definitely...

Yes, reading so many replies I do get a fair chance of what I should be expecting from HIM.. he he...

Thanks for being here...

hi mals,

MY dh has none of the qualities you mentioned.He watches all action movies.very poor eating habits and he doesn't have time for doing cleaning work.but still he is my romantic dh.

Hi VK,

Where there is love there are no expectations... It seems you love him like crazy and let it be that way...

Thanks for writing in here.

Hi mals,

U summed it up for me..whn u love someone u dont expect anything... it's just uncoditional :)

My dh can cook but everytime he cooks the kitchen gets so messy and it will take me lot of time to clean up. He'll clean up the house only if im sick and tht happened only twice in the last 2 yrs :) And he's reluctant to watch romantic movies...he loves only action and sci-fiction. And the moment he sees his mummy he doesnt know who i am..That's him and I just love him

Dear Friends, Thanks for starting this thread and am happy to share ... My dh is a good romantic person with lots of sense of humour ... when he is around I forget everything ... He loves to watch movies with me mostly on Sci-fi, Romance, Thriller, Action but not Drama ... He helps me in cooking and cleaning ... He cooks all Non-veg dishes, Chinese and European too ... But, when he cooks, kitchens gets little messy and got to clean when he finished everything ... But, still he helps in household cleaning both inside and outside (Garden, Lawn) ...

I thank God and my Parents to give a such wonderful person in my life ... ... Regards, Suni ...

Hi Mallugal,

I loved the way you summed up your husbands actions adding a punch of love tone. Whatever he does should amuse you, is what love says. Even after two years, his messing up of kitchen and forgetting your existence when his mom around has made you laugh, you surely love him from the chore baby... Keeep the flame burning forever. When you are in love, life is merry-go-round.

Bye and thanks a ton for writing in.