Poll: If given a chance to marry again...

Dear Chitra,

Honestly,I was perplexed to read your honest reply.

Surely,you are just pulling our legs!

How is it possible that Chitvish the creator of such divine posts on

diverse topics ranging from spirituality to cookery has made this

admission. Difficult to digest ! You are a role model in tht IL world.

Maybe you both just had a brainwave that presenting such a

statement will make us all wonder and make us respond !! ?

Regrads,

PAULINA

Hi! mals,

Great going as usual from The treasure Trove of Malspie!

My vote is a definite !

After 36 years of togetherness ,we've both become set in every way !

Ofcourse like many, gone thru' teething troubles and toothaches and

head aches galore, but now as I know my better half's eccentricities in

and out and he ,mine....I'll vote for my old model the next time and the

next and the next and the next as long as the world spins !!!

Frankly, too lazy to start on a new incarnation !!

Would like to add only one P.S, should be a non -smoker!!

All else the same model

Warm regards
PAULINA


To all ILites who gave honest answers.

here's hoping for sunnier tomorrows !!

Like we read in Sunkans post "These are just passing showers".

Dear Sunkan,

I liked your honesty. When we are not happy we should be able to express it in the true way and this leads us to a happy path in life. A condemned life can reach to the peak of nervous break down in the later stages and this is a general statement for all those who suppress their feelings thinking what would the other party think of me. I am happy to know that people of the previous generation have come out boldly and spoken about their life openly.

May God give you a very loving and caring husband, he will give you as you must have gone through extreme emotional stress, as living against one's nature is extreme difficult situation in life. Do what your heart wants to do and make life easier is what the great guru's say. Sometimes, it is not possible to follow your heart, forget it. God will give you another chance and this time, it will be pleasant.

Thanks for writing in.

Dear Vrinda,

Welcome to my thread.

You have aptly said that Chitvish did not put up an image and faced the world with her sincere feelings. That requires immense strength and our Dear Chits has got in plenty - she has proved it here ..

Dear Paulina,

Extremely happy to know that you are very much in love with your spouse and want him again and again till the world spins!!!. Blessed you are and let the Almighty keep blessing you forever.

It need real guts to reply honestly and few I'lites have walked with the trophy. .

Thanks for stepping in here. Warm welcome.

Hi Gals,

A big NO from me... not bcos he isn't great.. he is in his own way..

But .. there is always a but.. atleast next time around, I want to marry someone who pampers me better and treats me so precious as my hubby treats his folks in this birth..

Other than that, after all.. honesty is a trait, i always hold on to and thats something, my hubby isn't fond of in me.

I am sure our veteran Chitra mami can understand me..

Love,
Geeth Priya.

Originally Posted by malspie

Dear Sunkan,

I liked your honesty. When we are not happy we should be able to express it in the true way and this leads us to a happy path in life. A condemned life can reach to the peak of nervous break down in the later stages and this is a general statement for all those who suppress their feelings thinking what would the other party think of me. I am happy to know that people of the previous generation have come out boldly and spoken about their life openly.

May God give you a very loving and caring husband, he will give you as you must have gone through extreme emotional stress, as living against one's nature is extreme difficult situation in life. Do what your heart wants to do and make life easier is what the great guru's say. Sometimes, it is not possible to follow your heart, forget it. God will give you another chance and this time, it will be pleasant.

Thanks for writing in.

nomals,
pl do not even wish me those things i dont want any birth or husband anymore, ihave had my share of births is what ifeel just waiting for the responsibilities to get over, that is if my daughter will settle but she will not she says wants to be a free bird and variety is spice i am damn scared for her, any way it is her life too, cannot interfere there much...sunkan

Hi GPriya,

Welcome to my thread and I am sure this is my first interaction with you. Wow!! a bold confession and from me. Honesty makes our life easy, you have penned down what your heart said and why only Chitra Mami, even I appreciate your post and your frank approach.

From the "No" posts one thing is common, all females who have put in a "No" have asked for a spouse who can demonstrate his love and pamper them. We woman love to cuddle and be cuddled. May The Lord listen to your prayers.

Dear Sunkan,

I respect your corner in life. May God give you eternal peace and trust him, he has got a special gift holding in his heart for all of us. May be we missed taking it from him in this birth, but, the next one would be far better. Trust is life and trusting God is the safest as he does not betray his child who gives the complete thread and the spin to him. He will fly the kite in the right direction and make our life easy. He is kind but his kindness is felt only after we surrender ourselves totally to him. He is there with us, above us, in us, for us.

Dear Chitvish,

I support you as well as understand u in a better way, as i am also sailing in the same boat.
So from me 2, its a "BIG NO". (also i feel that my hubby should get a better wife than me).

Luv

Shashu