Poll: If given a chance to marry again...

Originally Posted by malspie

Dear Meenu,

That is concern like a true friend. Having Sinusitis. No sneezing or coughing. Fully choked up system. Waiting to bounce like a ball. Tired of medications. Doctors are also just playing with patients yaar. A simple sinusitis cannot be cured..

Dear Mals

Sinusitis??? Good Good..Enjoy..Once you get it, it becomes more attached to you n will not leave you that easily..There are many varieties of sinusitis n the time one has to spend with sinusitis depends on the area it affects..I think i should stop taking classes now. What else doctors have got to do with patients??? Wishing you a speedy recovery..

Originally Posted by Chitvish

Oh, Mals,
You will get the gretest shock of your life now.
It is NO from me.
I love to be pampered, not to be taken for granted, want to be endearingly called ( you know how, all!) atleast once in a way (preferably once a day minimum!).
This DH of mine will never do all these !
With all my culture posts, you may wonder at my reply. But I am not a prude or a hypocrite ! I want to be honest !
Now, ILites, please, please don't disown me ! I am anxious !!
where will I go?
Love,
Chithra.

Dear Chithra,



You proved that you are a 'superwoman'.....

Love,
Oviya.

Yes

No doubt at all.
This answer is not because what i have not gotten. But what I have GOT.
My husband Anand is a wonderful human being, very sincere, very honest, cannot tell a lie definetly to me and respects all women as he would his mother and sister. Stood by me unquestioningly at ALL times.Treats me with respect and dignity. Will never let anyone else treat me less.comes walking with me as i need to walk. Selects my sarees and churidhars for me. Brings me bed coffee. The most kindest soul you can ever know. A very special person . I never focus on what I do NOT have and always Focus on what i DO have. I do have a wonderful human being for my husband. If I have to take birth again I will marry him again.
Whether he will marry me is a pertinent question to ask !sorry to ramble. Thanks.

ofcourse yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeessssssssssssssssssss. i love him so very much, but the truth is he loves me more than that. i never missed my mom during my whole pregenancy, (iam being here she only came in my 9th month), i had severe nausea and vomitting, he looked after me like a baby, during my my whole first trimester, he never let me get to the kitchen, when i say never , never never. i adore him so much. so my answer wud be a million yes.

Mals,

Nice poll. I answered an emphatic Yes! He is quiet close to what I had desired for. So I don't want to get very greedy! Ha ha.

Next time though I will surely start "tweaking" his rough edges from the beginning itself! Will use my experience to polish his rough edges early on!

Chithra, I am perfectly in tune with your answer. You inspire us in so many ways and now one more has been added to the list – your amazing honesty and acute self-assessment!

SS

Originally Posted by malspie

Shanthi Re,

That was a cute one. Well, yourself and Vysan make a good couple ,so a 'Yes' was obvious from you and him too.. . Thanks for doing 'boney' of this poll . A warm welcome to you.

Thanks mals.

Looks like we are very predictable..

For me it is a yes because I sometimes feel nobody else (i mean parents, kids) can love me so much. and for not trying to change, though he hates me for being too determined (i will not call myself stubborn). may be i will fine tune myself the next time round...

Originally Posted by Chitvish

Oh, Mals,
You will get the gretest shock of your life now.
It is NO from me.
I love to be pampered, not to be taken for granted, want to be endearingly called ( you know how, all!) atleast once in a way (preferably once a day minimum!).
This DH of mine will never do all these !
With all my culture posts, you may wonder at my reply. But I am not a prude or a hypocrite ! I want to be honest !
Now, ILites, please, please don't disown me ! I am anxious !!
where will I go?
Love,
Chithra.

Dear Chitra mami! (I take the privilege of addressing you thus, after seeing your lovely pictures...), I am very happy to note that you are very frank and did not write an 'Yes' just for others' sake...

My respect for you has gone up a few notches!

Regards

Hi Mals!

Your threads have always been interesting reads.. As for me, it is a NO. I would like to marry a person who is a little more 'expressive' in all ways and who knows our traditions a little deeper....

But, as the saying goes, "Count your blessings" has been my mantra in the last few years...

Cheers!

Dear Malspie,
It is a big NO from me. Friends, don't think that I am complaining about my hubby after reading this reply.
I expected a friendly, loving and dignified person who would love me and respect me. Even if our interests were different, we could agree to disagree. He should have a head of his own and not just be a puppet in the hands of his family.
But my hubby is the opposite. He is everything that I hate and I will no marry him again, I would rather be a spinster all my life.
He is not only a bad husband but a very bad father too. He makes my son's life hell by expecting him to be tops in everything and not trying to understand our son's strengths and dreams.

Dear Chithra,
you surprise me no end. I am so happy to know that you so open, that shows how much trust you have in all of us ILiites. And also happy to know that there is company for me, though it need not have been like that.