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| Somehow or other, we treat God as our rich Uncle and we take the liberty of demanding those things from God, which we dare not even ask our parents. Last edited by varalotti; 6th August 2007 at 11:36 AM. |
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| hi sridhar, I was rather intrigued by the topic at the start. but after reading the whole thread my god that poem by Rabia is going to haunt me for some time. would really love to go through all her works. Total belief and surrender is what is need of the hour. Man has become more materialistic that he thinks that just as in treatments(alternate ) for ailments he can find different god's to solve his different problems. We have a family friend who makes fun of people :mad: who go on and on chanting slokas the whole day. he says adapt a time when you are comfortable. just sit in total relaxation and say the gayathri mantra for 5 minutes all your pooja is done. (but that is deviating from the topic.) AS you say we have to learn to thank god for his small mercies on us and be satisfied with what he has bestowed and leave the job of taking care of us in his hands and do our duties as best as we can. but a nice thread with thoughts to ponder for a long time to come...
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| dear sridhar a different topic with an interesting theory. satan if i am not wrong was highly scholarly. he only wanted to go against god. so there is no surprise as to his knowledge about vedas. i for one believe that god is omnipotent and lives in every creature. it is only in degrees that his presenc3e is varied. thoonillum iruppan thurumpilim iruppan. there is a story withnarada. her wanted 2 find out who is vishnu's best devotee. he went and asked him. i chant ur name all the time so ami not ur best devotee. lord smiled he said he knew of a farmer who was the best. now narada got piqued. he said ha had to see this guy. so he came down to boologa. the man was a simple person who went about his chores,he would take god's name b4 starting any job and his day passed without much chanting r meditation. narada asked god what is so spl abt this guy. god said i want u 2 liv his life 4 a day. narada said big deall and went abt doing the chores. once he had finished he was tired,he asked the lord what is the big idea? god said now today how many times did u chant my name. narada was astounded. ha had not even tried once. so my folks,if u take the god's name doing ur duties that is enough 2 please him. as to the lady saint. hats off 2 her thoughts. i guess instead of asking giod to giv this and that,we can pray 4 wisdom and strength2 tackle all that he wantys us to go through bye luv kripa |
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| Hi Shanti, After posting the thread I was a little apprehensive about its reception. I am thoroughly convinced of the truth in Rabia's poem. But I was afraid that in a site where slokas and chanting are quite popular, a view like this might have some kind of resistance. I was relieved to see your post, Shanti. We need to balance the two view-points. Honestly when we are in trouble nothing soothes our mind than a fervent prayer. I am not saying that we should not pray to God in times of distress. We should. We should confide in him our troubles. But when we are not in distress, let our prayers be one of surrender and absolute gratitude. Let us not make a shopping list to God and call it our prayers. That will be blasphemy. You said it right, Rabias words are still haunting me. A few more samples for you from Rabia Al Basri I love God: I have no time left In which to hate the devil. How long will you keep pounding on an open door Begging for someone to open it? Let us use this thread to ponder upon God's love for us. love, |
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| dear kripa, thanks for the fable of Narada. Actually in the version we are told, there is a small variation. God makes Narada go around the world with an open cup full of oil. The condition: not even a drop of oil should spill. Well, the rest is the same. Narada was focussed on the oil cup and never thought of God. I will go one step further, Kripa. God is not a dictator or a person who needs psycophants around him. So even if we do not remember His name at all (incidentally does he have anything we can say as his name, does he have anything we can consider his form) His love still does not diminish even a bit. We should do our allotted tasks and not hate our fellow beings. His expectation from us is the minimal. And again Kripa, let's not even pray for wisdom or strength. That is also something from the shopping list. Let's just leave everything to Him. Let him decide what we should have. If He decides that we should be fools and we should be weak, then let it be. Let our surrender be total, Kripa. Then only we can fully relish God's love. thanks for the participation, love, |
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| wow! hats off to u sir for bring a very intriguing topic to the forum. i must say that the title itself had caught my eye.it had me thinking....what could it be that must have fascinated you sir to write this topic. what u have stated is true sir, that for every wish or deed that we want, we always turn to god to ask her/him of the boon. infact we have different gods for different needs.... but i feel that we do what we do because we have been always taught by the elders that if you pray hard/devotedly enough,u would get what you want. and more so because we were always asked not to expect much of our parents.thus, the 'diversion' is created instead. Quote:
having said this, thank you very much sir for writing on this topic. cheers |
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| Thanks Maya for the kind words. What parents taught to us regarding prayer, when we were children were true at that time. But as we grow of age, we should mature and come to know the love of God and experience at least a trillionth portion of it. Otherwise our life would become an exercise in futility. I am anxious that we should stop seeing God as Kamadhenu or the mythological Karpaga Vrisham, which gives all our heart's desires. If God gave us whatever we wanted, our life could be the worst possible hell. Well, in my own case I saw my school-crush, Rajathilakam, several years later. I could not even recognise the sprightly little girl who commanded a whole class about forty years ago. God shows Her love to us 1)by answering our prayers and even more so 2) by refusing to heed to our prayers. May we all be blessed in that pure love. love, |
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| Dear Jr. Sri., That was a thought provoking read. Over the years, I have learnt to love God for himself, though my list of demands on him shows no sign of diminishing. Because I beleive that the he is the only person capable of taking of my family other than me!! Do I sense a huge relief of thanks because God refused one particular prayer? ![]()
__________________ Chitrajan Work your way to progress. Cheers |
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| Welcome Back, Chitra, (or should I say Junior Chitra, I think there are quite a lot of Chitras around, so I should say, Senior, Junior 1, Junior 2, or Sub-Junior, Super Senior etc ha ha, just kidding. You may call me sridhar as the senior sri is Srinivasan or you may call me varalotti) I missed you in all these forums. Especially when SHE was raging with controversy over controversy you were not there to give your two cents (or rather two million dollars). Yes, I too pray to God for all and sundry, no doubt. But once in a while, why don't we surprise Her by asking for nothing, and just praying. As Gibran says God knows our thoughts even before they arise in our mind. So should we need to tell him with so many words? Let's not disturb the way we pray as of now. But let's from now on allocate at least fifteen minutes a day for a "no-shopping list, no wish-list prayer". She has been absolutely unconditional in Her love. Why don't to be strive to reciprocate a zillionth part of it, hey, just for a change? love, |
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