Hi Mahdee,
Congratulations.

Check out in unwanted hair removal sub forum. you 'll find lot of answers to your query.
By the way answer to your query:
Dont use any creams. Try satin care razor specially meant for ladies. Its available in all departmental store. when compared to other razor, this one is soft. Once your practised to it you can go for self waxing also.
One suggestion: Please post your query in appropriate sub forum. Please Dont mistake me. Also I've seen two of your same post in two sub forums. I'm sorry if this hurts you. Just to let you know only i've mentioned all these.