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  1. Sriniketan

    Sriniketan IL Hall of Fame

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    Dear friends,
    While browsing I found this article interesting and wanted to share with you...
    Hope you all don't mind..to post this here.:hide: because of this title...:mrgreen:
    It is a loong article, please bear with me and go through the contents..:hiya


    Out There: People Who Live Without TV
    <!-- BEGIN STORY BODY -->Clara Moskowitz
    LiveScience Staff Writer
    LiveScience.com Thu Sep 4, 9:50 AM ET


    <!-- end storyhdr -->For many Americans the thought of life without TV is akin to forgoing food, shelter or, God forbid, the Internet. But about 1 to 2 percent of Americans do abstain from the boob tube, and they might seem like strange bedfellows.
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    A recent study of those who live without found that about two-thirds fall into either the "crunchy granola set" or the "religious right, ultraconservative" camp, said researcher Marina Krcmar, a professor of communication at North Carolina's Wake Forest University. Krcmar interviewed 120 people from 62 different households who do not watch television, as well as 92 people from 35 households with TV, and described her findings in a new book, "Living Without the Screen" (Routledge, 2008).

    Aversion to television, it turns out, is a common ground for the very liberal and the very conservative.

    "I interviewed one guy who was 31, single, an artist living in Boston, who saw himself as countercultural," Krcmar told LiveScience. "The next day I had an interview with a religious woman with ten children who lived in the Midwest. These people seem like they would disagree about almost everything, but if you ask them about television the things that came out of their mouths were almost identical."

    Why do people give it up?

    Krcmar herself lives on the dark side, having given up television about 13 years ago.

    "It's just something I don't want in the home - it's a perpetual annoyance, like a gnat," she said.

    The motivations for most people who abandon TV fall into three categories, Krcmar found.

    Some give it up to avoid exposing their families to the excessive sex, violence, and consumerism they feel are promoted onscreen. Others object to the medium itself, claiming television intrudes too much into their lives, interferes with conversation and takes time away from the family. Finally, some people have a beef with the power and values of the television industry and don't want its influence in their homes.

    In contrast to the average American adult, who watches three hours of television a day, non-watchers fill their time with a plethora of activities.

    "Non-viewers had a greater variety of things that they did with their free time than viewers did," Krcmar said. "It's not just that they were reading instead of watching TV. They were hiking and biking, and going to community meetings and visiting with friends. Overall, they tend to do more of everything."

    Are they right?

    Science does in fact support many non-watchers' worst fears about TV.

    "The research tends to show that increased exposure to television and violence results in greater aggression in children," Krcmar said. "That's a pretty consistent finding."

    Though not all children become more violent, and everyone reacts uniquely, it's fair to say that what we watch affects us.

    When parents did cut television out of their homes, they reported that their kids didn't bug them as much for junk food and toys advertised on TV. They also said giving up television made their children easier to manage.

    "It's sort of counter-intuitive, because people think their kids would drive them nuts without TV," Krcmar said. "But parents found that kids became very good at entertaining themselves and didn't need to be entertained all the time by something that was lively and active. They didn't complain about being bored."

    Downsides of life without TV
    People who had relinquished television didn't report too many downsides. Most felt satisfied getting their news from newspapers and radio, and while some people said they felt less connected to pop culture, "many adults noted that as a point of pride," Krcmar said.
    Even most kids in non-watching households seemed to agree with their parents that they were better off without the reviled medium, though a number of kids around ages 10 to 13 said they resented feeling left out when other kids talk about shows and actors on television. By the time they reached later adolescence around age 14 and 15, though, most had come full circle and said they didn't really like TV and didn't mind doing without.
    For those who want to experience some of the benefits of life without the tube, but don't feel ready to go cold turkey, Krcmar said she thinks good things can come just by setting limits.
    "I think you can have the benefits just by having kids watch less television," she said. "Be selective about content. You don't go to a restaurant and let them eat anything on the menu. Instead you say choose something that's healthy that you would enjoy."
    A similarly restrained approach to TV could go a long way toward protecting kids from the downsides of TV.
     
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  2. Sowparnika

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    i too sometimes wonder if it would be much better without tv....it really encroaches into our time, and kills conversation...
    i watch tv for a couple of hours in the late afternoons or sometimes i switch it on and go about doing my work....but i've been without tv for days on end too...
    growing up, i was allowed to watch only those shows which met with my father's approval....
    and one of my uncles did'nt get a cable connection till his daughter finished school... and another still does'nt have a tv, though the daughters' are in college... so am quite used to the concept of a tv-less home, and to a great extent in favour of it too... :)
    but my husband was quite amazed that people could live without tv's when we visited the above cousins' home soon after marriage... Big Laugh
     
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    Dear Bhargavi

    I too saw this on Yahoo this morning. I have to show this to my son who prefers not to have a TV. I am trying to decide whether he is liberal or conservative? He loves to go to the theatre a lot.
     
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    Dear Sowpar,

    I too feel the same way. I enjoy election coverage ( sometimes) and the olympics. But I prefer the quietness during the day.
     
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    Dear Srini Madam,

    Thanks a lot for sharing with us... it is very thought provoking !
    First of all ... declaration - We are not having TV in US.
    According to me :
    Spending more time on this, it is the fact that you spend very little time with your dear ones at home. Both "Quality and Quantity" time is seized.
    To be very frank.... I see many people, glued themselves to the couch to watch TV (mostly flashing out tears/fights -daily tv soaps). They are not realising that they are missing love,affection from their "near" and dear ones. But they are focussed to their "nearest" - Television. Very pathetic !!

    Admired Usha's son's views... A very good one. My vote is for him. Rather than a single person watching some serials, others sitting in different rooms, it is always better go to a theatre and enjoy with the family.

    Keep it up !! Dear
     
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    Bhargavi
    As usual you bring great topics to us..thank you
    I am not surprised about this.. We never had a t.v when our kid was growing up.. small. Even now its very restricted mainly to sports or sometimes news and other popular teen programmes.
    Many of my friends do not have t.v. and those that have t.v. use it just for dvds and some have just the 3 main networks
    We too thought of doing away with ours but once when I was with these families the topic turned to American idol (which we ardently watch) and they knew nothing about it.. that decided it for me.
    so we have t.v. just regular cable.. but very restricted viewing. working for us.
    glad you wrote about it and everyone's reply is very nice to read too.
     
  7. mangaii

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    Hi Bhargavi madam,
    Our home is cable free.We don't have any channels.We do watch DVD's occasionaly in TV.Thats it.Other than we never see TV.I have met so many TV free families.Hope we will be there one day.
    Thanks
    Mangai
     
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    Hi Sriniketan,
    Very interesting post. Like Mangai our home is also cable free home now.
    When my daughter was an infant we used to have cable. Whenever the
    tv is on she is turning that side and she was watching 24/7. So we decidedto cut off the cable. We occasionally watch movies in dvd, But my kid watches cartoon everyday in dvd. That too I limit the time to half an hour.
    So Mangai you have people with your same wave length.
     
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    Hello, Sriniketan

    This is a good issue to discuss. My husband and I decided to cancel cable a few months ago. So far, it's been a great decision for us. As others who have done the same have pointed out, there's far more time now to do other things.

    We watch DVDs (DVD rentals are much cheaper than cable,and our local library also offers a great selection for free) and now tend to watch TV (free channels and DVDs) in a more focussed and finite way. By finite, I mean that when something we're watching is over, we switch off the TV instead of channel-surfing to find something else to watch, and so on until you suddenly realise you have no idea where the last hour went.

    Our house is also much quieter and more peaceful these days. It is easier for us to wind down in the evenings without the obnoxious blaring of overly loud advertisements, the shrill antics of reality shows, and the information overload that is network news. Of course, we could have had this freedom when we had cable too, but it is not easy to be as self-disciplined when you feel there may be something on that you're missing.

    I'd like to one day be TV-free, but that may not be possible, because we do enjoy quality TV shows, movies, and documentaries. I am thinking seriously about not letting my children (when I have some children!) watch TV until they're older. We didn't have a TV for some years when I was a child, and I think I'm better for it. It's easier to prevent a dependency in the first place than to try and break one.

    One more thing that struck me about excessive TV viewing (especially network/cable TV) is how negative and counter-productive a lot of the underlying messages and values are. The advertisments constantly imply that we're not rich/thin/successful/beautiful enough, and most reality shows (Flava of Love, The Bad Girls' Club, The Bachelor, etc.) are based on aggression, mean-spirited competition, and superficial values. Our favourite channel is PBS, but we didn't watch it as much as we should have when we had cable. By not exposing ourselves to all that is bad on TV, we may actually be improving our states of mind generally.

    Again, thanks for introducing a great topic.

    Ansuya
     
  10. Sriniketan

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    Friends,
    To tell the truth, I first hesitated to bring it here, because this is a TV sub-forum where many things related to TV is being discussed..
    After seeing your fbs...I am contended that many like us can live without TV..( count me in too...we also have basic cable and Suntv for my mil)..

    thanks a lot Sowpar, Usha, Gowri, AC, mangai, vidhyalakshmi and Anusuya..for your fbs and views in this regard..less TV, less head-ache in all fields..
    Usha, :hatsoff your son..in this era..where TV and other modern gadgets rule...

    sriniketan
     

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