Daddy ..I NEED YOU.. !!

Originally Posted by pinky2

Dear Brindha,

Excellent story and Narration.I got tears when i read this wonderful one, on Gautham's part.. My son too miss his dad when he's busy on all week days, but weekends all for my son....I too miss him a lot.....

Cheers,
Pinky..

Dear pinky,
I was really moved by your feedback... Thanx a lot for reading and writing here... Even I and my DD have time only in weekends to spent with my DH..sailing in the same boat ..:)

Originally Posted by lahy15

Dear Brindha,

Well written story with a lovely message for all dads ... I love the way you write dear ... My kids enjoy playing with my hubby ... even though he forgets his keys and purse while we go out ... he never forgets to play with kids whenever he is at home ... he takes them to swimming, all three (DH, DS & DD) go for cycling living me and my little one alone at home ... even some times, when they all go for shopping he takes them to Mac donald ... kids really enjoy his presence more than me :rolleyes: ... as often they all go out and myself and my little boy stay at home which makes me to have an excuse to enjoy IL ...

Thanks for sharing a lovely cute story Brindha ... keep it up dear ...

Dear Sunitha,

Thats was a cute feedback from you dear.... Im glad you liked this.It very nice of your Dh spending time with his kids...Many fathers fail to do this..
I enjoyed your last line ... about IL .... Thanx for penning my dear.

Originally Posted by shanvy

hi brindhak,

You always need a balanced atmosphere in the house for the kids. As kids sense all kinds of discomfort more than us and they are more sensitive.

In my experience and observatsions, I always found few fathers do not know how to mingle with the kids, they also don't understand that they need to be present and give quality time,more than the money and the things that the money they earn gives.

In your story,Nethra accepts karthik's being a busy. I feel that as a mother it would have been your responsibility to make the husband understand his mistakes before it is too late. See, though we can accept the husband to be busy as a wife, as a mother your responsibility widens and it becomes your responsibility to bring in both the children and the father to gether to enjoy each other... (just wanted to tell you this..though i liked your version of the story with gautam paving the way...)

it is very much neccessary to bring in this harmony to have happy kids...

I talk from experience.and quality of the time spent is more important and sometimes overrides the quantity of the time.

Dear Shanthi Mam...
Thanx a lot for stepping in and writing a wonderful FB. I very happy to see you responsible thoughts....as a Good mother.... Even I go with you... Mother has to discuss everything with the father....She has the responsiblity in correcting him...
I just thought of penning another version thats it.. :)

The last line is like a "Quote" Mam.. Wonderful !!

Originally Posted by pavithrasriram

dear brindha,
nice story!!!well written..
you have nicely depicted the situation which arises in most families these days and have put your message across clearly and beautifully.
looking forward to your next one.....
regards
pavi

Dear pavi,
Your always there with your wonderful words to encourage me....Im glad you liked this one... Yes it is a current issue seen mostly...Father's should be more responsible and find some time to spend with their family...

ThanX dear....

Originally Posted by Cindhuja

Hi brindha,

Nice story, well narrated.Felt like reading an interesting one page story in magazines.

Dear Cindhu,

Happy you liked the story dear.... Thanx for reading and writing here... Thanx for your kind words...

hello brinda

great write up
but which busy father
is going to read this
and change?

sathya

Originally Posted by rajmiarun

Brindha,
Your story is too good. Yes, the father's of this era, not all but some dont understand that materials didnot matter for the kids but the father's love, affection and presence is absolutely needed for the kids.

I still remember my childhood very well and the time we all spent together on all days. He taught us so many things in life which are helping us now. Though my husband is unable to spend that much amount of time with our kids, he is trying to give his quality time whenever possible.

A nice story at the right time dear.

Dear Mam,
Thanx a lot for reading and writing a Nice FB.... ..I

I m glad you liked it. Yes ,, Father has his own responsibiltes in bringing a child... He should/must render his care,affection,advice,sugesstions at the needy times...Each and every man should understand this..

ThanX a lot Mam....

Originally Posted by sharadha

Hi Brinda,

Your narration is simply superb.

Gautam is lucky cos his dad realized his mistake at least now. Still the son can get his desires fulfilled. Better late than never.

This reminds me of my dad. Though I was the only child, pampered by him, yet my father never took me outside, even to the park / beach. My mother used to fulfill all my desires.

I used to pray god that my husband should spend more some time with his son..Wanted my son to get whatever I was missing from my father.

Believe me my husband makes sure that both of us are happy and takes us to many places possible.

When I told this to my mother she felt too happy for me and said that she has been gifted to get a son in law like him and whatever my dad couldn't give me , my husband gives in double.

Not trying to blame my father...This was the only thing I was missing..Otherwise he is such a loving father who used to take utmost care of me. Every second of my life I would like to thank god for giving me such wonderful parents.

Brinda dear, Thanks for giving me an opportunity to share my feelings.

Wowwww Sharada.. that was a emotional feedback indeed..... I can understand that your father and more than your father your DH is having lots of love and affection to his family... Many fathers dont know to express the love they have ..this is reality I think.... :) Glad you have Wonderful parents and a Caring DH....

May you and your family be blessed with more and more happiness dear.....

ThanX a lot for reading and giving such a Nice Feedback dear....

Dear Brindha,

Hatsoff for the touching story,sweet and clear..

Thanq for writing such a cute story and at the same time a moral from it..By reading ur writings I always feel that they are worth..

Waiting for more!!

Hugs,
dg..

Dear brindha,

a very good one ...brought so many memories of both my dad ..who is the most loving father....and my DH...i would just like to give u two instances which came to my mind...with my father my wish was his command anything i wanted i got ....so much so that everyone said he spoilt me...anyway when planning my wedding decorations dad had this great idea of shamiana and lights etc(too jazzy to my liking ) and when i objected he just said..why u are interfering in all this... just leave it to us and now that i recollect not even his tone was angry..but i was so upset i cried and couldnt have dinner that night....
and all my friends think that DH is the best father they have seen...we used to have a bunk bed in india with a cupboard down and bed on top...after dinner i used to do the clearing up and dh would tell dd a story and just pat her and put her to bed...she was around 5 that time...daily he used to stand up on a chair and have this nightly routine brindha..it was very touching to see that...
thanks for rekindling these memories dear... Both have been more than just available for their daughters....

Mindi