Do you live life to the fullest only in weekends???????

Hi to All,
Do you all live life to the fullest only on weekends?
This s the question bothering me from quite few days.....
Whenever I say or want to discuss something with my hubby, he simply says , Wait till weekend, we can discuss abt this then.
I just wonder is it similar in everyones life.
Why we wait for weekends to even have simple conversations also? Why our lives hav become so busy and preoccupied that we get time to spend with our spouse only on weekends?
I feel very sad abt this.Though I'm not working now, I make myself busy with household chores.But still I feel empty when I cant talk simple things in my life with my Hubby everyday ut hav to wait till weekends.
The weekends come and go and we do enjoy very well then.
But what abt all other days, aren't we missing everyday of our lives just for waiting till weekend comes??????????
God has given us 7 days a week and we hav to live everyday but y only weekends??????????
Is it my own feeling or do the other ladies feel the same??????/
Waiting for ur answers,my friends.......

Hi Dear,

I live my life to the fullest on all days...hubby or no hubby.

I think this will be different with each individual, depending on their circumstances and their outlook to life. My DH's schedule is too hectic his phone rings 24*7, has long working hrs. Even though we try to have all the meals together...most of the times he is on calls that too unavoidable ones. But that does not mean he has no time for me.

I know that this is unavoidable...so i don't crib or make faces...i keep myself occupied doing things that i love to do. And when we are together we try to make the most of it.

He does not dictate what i should do and the same goes with me...we give enough space to each other, appreciate and complement each other on what one is doing. Whenever possible lend a helping hand.

Remember that we had come alone in this world and will be going alone too...so why not learn to walk alone...and enjoy the company of our near and dear ones whenever possible. Why spoil the atmosphere over small petty things...god has given us a lot more than we deserve...see people around you. You will know that you are a lot happier than them.

I am sorry i intended to write something else but the spiritual streak woke up...hence i go with the flow. Maybe will come again with another write-up.

So my dear don't worry be happy. And if you feel that there is something imp. to discuss and you husband dosen't have time...send him an email or write it in a chit and ask him to take a look whenever he has time.

"Do you live life to the fullest only in weekends???????"

Define fullest

I mean for each their own right?

Its upto us right.. If one want a simple life, they can get a very low paying job, eat whatever they could out it, have kids go to some school if they can and lead a peaceful non materialistic life..

But does it happen?

Everyone is working their a$$ off for the betterment of not just themselves.. but their family. So its our choice ain't?

Daer cheers-sunray,

The answer is in your question /post itself.
Just read your last four lines of posting.
I am sure you will live life fullest 24/7.

Wishing best..

Hi,

Nowadays all the working category be it rich or poor keeping running around the whole day for something or the other. They come back from work, eat and sleep..hardly have time to sit and talk. This happens in every other house. If you know tamil..Veetukku Veedu Vasappadi.

During weekends, we are away from our usual routine, mind will be relaxed and can sort out / discuss at your leisure.

Some says it for an excuse. It could be either way.

Hi Cheers-sunray.....
I feel its upto a person only to live his life in any day......I live my life to the fullest on each and every day. For us, life starts from early in the morning and once we are back home, its our life......both of us cook....roam.....do whatever we enjoy the most.
I think you can enjoy every second of your life even in weekdays. The only difference in the weekends are we are not bound by any time limiting rules.....and its another part of life.
I have seen people who waits till weekend to enjoy small pleasures and in weekends they talk about the hectis weekdays and this way they were never feel happy in any day of the week.
Certain things which requires more time can be postponed to weekends but to have a small talk...little fun together...I don't feel its worth......to wait.
Planning the weekdays properly will be a solutions.....like after coming back from work, everybody still has 5 hours before going to bed.......and in spite of wasting these precious time in TV....chatting on phones.......you can do something that interest and can be done by both.......
Regards.

Hi cheers,
first calm down and don't be upset! your hubby would have told you this in a thought to discuss with you freely in more space and time in weekends. but if he tells u like that don't leave him on weekends..as he said, discuss everything in weekends slowly and don't get tensed...Usually hubbies will have so many office tensions in day to day life and they will find time to forget everything and be happy only in weekends. Today's world's situation is like this..hubbies won't be given free time in their office and they will be pressurised in day to day job and so many politics in offices. So,if they come home,they just need to relax after office hours..I am telling you all this in my hubby's point of view..gent's point of view will be more or less the same i think..but not sure..When i was at home(now working),my hubby used to come home and expect me to be smiling and relax him in a pleasent manner..he liked it very much but i didn't realize at that time..now,i am feeling for that..i was loaded up with thoughts and after he arrives at home i will try to talk to him and discuss with him but his answer was not clear and he was tensed..So,i thought i can talk everything in weekends..We discussed everything in weekends and everything was alright,according to me...So,try to accomplish everything in weekends and see if this works..We can be alright if we see in husband's point of view..I don't know whether iam right or not..but just thought i can share with you. Be cool and enjoy!
Thanks

Originally Posted by roopadadia

Hi Dear,

I live my life to the fullest on all days...hubby or no hubby.

I think this will be different with each individual, depending on their circumstances and their outlook to life. My DH's schedule is too hectic his phone rings 24*7, has long working hrs. Even though we try to have all the meals together...most of the times he is on calls that too unavoidable ones. But that does not mean he has no time for me.

I know that this is unavoidable...so i don't crib or make faces...i keep myself occupied doing things that i love to do. And when we are together we try to make the most of it.

He does not dictate what i should do and the same goes with me...we give enough space to each other, appreciate and complement each other on what one is doing. Whenever possible lend a helping hand.

Remember that we had come alone in this world and will be going alone too...so why not learn to walk alone...and enjoy the company of our near and dear ones whenever possible. Why spoil the atmosphere over small petty things...god has given us a lot more than we deserve...see people around you. You will know that you are a lot happier than them.

I am sorry i intended to write something else but the spiritual streak woke up...hence i go with the flow. Maybe will come again with another write-up.

So my dear don't worry be happy. And if you feel that there is something imp. to discuss and you husband dosen't have time...send him an email or write it in a chit and ask him to take a look whenever he has time.

Hi,
Nice to see ur reply.
But u are entirely mistaken abt me.M not here to complain or crib over this issue.I just wanted to know is it my own feeling or others also think the same.I'm quite happy and dont mind if my Husband asks me to wait till weekends.But I just feel sad at the circumstances that our lives hav become so hectic.I think you got my point now.........
Its a general topioc nothing particular to me and my spouse........

Originally Posted by rya

Hi cheers,
first calm down and don't be upset! your hubby would have told you this in a thought to discuss with you freely in more space and time in weekends. but if he tells u like that don't leave him on weekends..as he said, discuss everything in weekends slowly and don't get tensed...Usually hubbies will have so many office tensions in day to day life and they will find time to forget everything and be happy only in weekends. Today's world's situation is like this..hubbies won't be given free time in their office and they will be pressurised in day to day job and so many politics in offices. So,if they come home,they just need to relax after office hours..I am telling you all this in my hubby's point of view..gent's point of view will be more or less the same i think..but not sure..When i was at home(now working),my hubby used to come home and expect me to be smiling and relax him in a pleasent manner..he liked it very much but i didn't realize at that time..now,i am feeling for that..i was loaded up with thoughts and after he arrives at home i will try to talk to him and discuss with him but his answer was not clear and he was tensed..So,i thought i can talk everything in weekends..We discussed everything in weekends and everything was alright,according to me...So,try to accomplish everything in weekends and see if this works..We can be alright if we see in husband's point of view..I don't know whether iam right or not..but just thought i can share with you. Be cool and enjoy!
Thanks

Hi rya,
thanks for ur reply.
But dear, m rather not much upset over this.
Actually its just a topic and wanted to know all of ur veiw points.Not only husbands but working women also put off things and wait for weekends........
So its not anything particular abt husbands.My only idea was to throw some light on this issue...i.e in a week full of 7 days,most of the couples(now after seeing all of ur responses I can say this)communicate,discuss etc.. more only on weekends.
Am I right?????

What a response!
But my dear frnds,
everyone hav got me entirely wrong.
I want to clear that m not complaining or cribbing over my husband as he postpones discussions.
I juts wanted to share with u all that how lives hav transformed in such a way that we dont live to the fullests every day but wait for weekends.........
To me living life fullest is being happy and cheerful everyday and not waiting for a weekend and so on............I'm not against weekends I just want to say that live life everyday why only on weekends!But its not possible as today's lifestyle is like that.
This post was just to know whether all other ppl also wait for weekends or not.
I hav no issue and m quite fine with what my husband says.
But any way thanks for all the responses.