The BEST Stage of LIFE .....!!

Originally Posted by Arunarc

Hi Brindha
According to me all the stages in life has something good and bad. so choosing one is always difficult. We say past stage is good but when we step forward into the next stage we face some difficulties and as finishing that stage we face many happiness too. So just mentioning which is best is difficult becoz I have enjoyed all the stages of life now I am in middle adulthood, and enjoying this too, Each stage has its own beauty.

Dear EQ,

Yes starting from infancy to senority we have both good and distress times.... Each stage has its own effects in life..as you said....

Thanx dear.. for writing..

Originally Posted by Mindian

hi Brindha ,

good topic..i too agree with Aruna...each stage has its best and difficult times and upto us to make the most of every stage and enjoy it...i too am in middle adulthood and am having a good time...looking back at life touch wood it has been good and hoping the future will also be the same....

Mindi

Wow..thats great Mindi..that you had great time in all stages (touch wood).. Enjoy your middle adult hood..and let your Future be the BEST...

Thanx Dear for writing..

Originally Posted by sharadha

Hi Brinda,

I would say that the best stage of life is from the time of birth to 2 years. You get what you need and others attention is always on you. Care free life.

Dear Sharada...

Hmm.. Infancy..... A cute stage sharada.. always in the warmth of MOM..and the most care given stage ... :)

Thanx Dear.....

Hi Brindha,

An interesting topic ! Each stage in life is unique in its own way. As for the initial years, we are in total bliss since we are taken care of in all possible ways..and we don't even realize there is a negative/sad phase in life.

But at every stage, we can't wait to grow up...imagining it is going to be better than the present. :)

It is very difficult for me to choose just one stage Brindha...all are wonderful and have their share of plus and minuses !
Moreover, am yet to see all the stages..

Cheers
Krithika

Originally Posted by brindhak

Dear All....

"Life is a puzzle. Sometimes it makes us laugh. Sometimes it makes us cry."
We deal with different events and stages in life different ways.

The greatest irony of life is that it would take more than a lifetime to know everything about life.....

We know about these quotes very well.....

From infancy to the senior years, humans physically mature at different paces
but in distinct phases of development.

The different stages of Life are :-

Infancy
Childhood
Adolesence
Young adulthood
Middle adulthood
Senior adult hood..

Each and Everyone in Life..has something BEST in any of these stages...or expect something to be the BEST ...

What had been the BEST STAGE OF LIFE for you..... ?? OR in General.....Which is BEST..?

Dear Brindha,

Nice topic dear.

You know I really feel we never get to enjoy the particular age we are in.

When we are kids, we look forward to growing up to a teen to enjoy certain previleges.

When we are in teens we wish to grow up to become an adult a major again for certain pleasures

When we are in twenties we are looking forward to get more mature so as to handle major responsibilities

Then in middles we end up worrying about the impending old age
In old age we end up regretting the younger days that we NEVER enjoyed.

Funny isnt it, but true!!

I think we need to enjoy each moment we are in.We live once ,go through each stage once ,so make merry while there.

Right now Im enjoying my present times , making the most of it.I try not to worry about the future nor regret my past.

So Id vote for my present situation and find happiness in that.

Love,
Devika

Originally Posted by lahy15

Dear Brindha,

I am in Middle Adulthood stage and like from the beginning for my Infancy until now ... I can't say which is best as eash stage teaches us different lessons and gives us new experience in our life... :Iagree: with Aruna and Mindian ... I like all my Stages and I keep enjoying it too ... Regards, Suni ...

Hi Suni....
Its nice to se that you had great time in all your stages..and wish have more hapiness in the coming stages..... We learn something in each stage..Your right dear.... :)

Thanx dear....

Originally Posted by Sriniketan

Brinda,
I too agree with Aruna, Mindi and Suni--all the stages has its best and worst.

Infancy and childhood stages--- gone, without even we noticing it..
Teenage years----same here too..
Young adulthood--Has its own responsibilites..
Middle adulthood---It is where I am here now, enjoying and analysing life as it is..sometimes diffcult....
Senior adulthood---not been there yet, if I am..I want to enjoy it as it is ...

sriniketan

Dear Mam.....
Nice to see your wonderful stages....

Senior Adulthood.... I think its a wonderful satge in life Mam..... After completing all the resposibiltes and duties.....We enter that stage..peacefully..... We can sit on an easy chair...with some good books.... sometimes rewinding and cherishing all the wonderful memories........ happily spending the time with Gandchildren ...alos spending much time with GOD ........hmmm........ the list goes... on..... I love that stage ..than anything else Mam.. but longggggggggg way to go.....

Thanx Mam

Originally Posted by latamurali

There are Exceptions... and also situations differ from person to person........so for me.

Infancy - i heard.....that all will pamper me and shower me with their love........but still it gone wihtout our knowledge.......like almost everybodty will get that attendtion and love atleast for first 2 yrs of life........NO WONDER......

Childhood - From my cildhood.i have beeb brought up with some sort of Military control........:we dont have any freedom to do anything by our own..........My father is v v v strict and reserved person.and v short tempered too........so we even afraid to go infront of him and call him " APPA" loduly.......so always some sort of silense will be there.......my father choose my school,my college, my subject, myjob,my hubby, my vehicle, my dress, my food.............anything and everything..........

So l my Infancy, childhood,Adolesence,young adulhood stage went without any freedom ../ happiness.... .....so iam
sorry .i dont have any sweet memories other than my college days..........yes.i enjoyed those days to the core with my collegemates..........

But.with God's grace.............my life changed upside down after my wedding..........hahahah.ofcourse my dad choose my DH..........thank u dad........ and THANK GOD...................MY BEST STAGE OF LIFE IS THE PRESENT STAGE ( iam in middle adulhood now - in thirties...).my DDDH has given me full freedom.and he is showering me with his love and concern.........and iam enjoying eac and everyday with peace and happiness......with God's grace......

Dear latha........
Thanx for sharing the various stages..dear.... I can understand..their are many more like you.....sometimes parents are very strict and orthodox....

But it nice to hear that you are enjoying life each and every moment now with your DH... Thats GRT.... Wish you get more and more bliss in future...

Thanx dear..

Originally Posted by saraswathipv

,

I guess, others enjoy the infants presence...cooing, cuddling etc...

I had a wonderful childhood and adolescence period. Lived in three different states in India during this period which meant different schools and many friends. lots of travelling also.

My young adulthood has been good too. Finishing college and getting into a job...
It was at this stage that my mom passed away. so mentally grew up a little more and became more strong.
Then after marriage too, life has been good to me.

Now in my middle adulthood, I find myself enjoying this phase....learning, travelling more now also and making more friend thru IL.

Hoping , wishing and praying that it continues to be so forever.

Dear Saras..

Nice to your different stages ...each stage influences us with something or the other.... Wish you the very best in other stages too.. :)

Thanx dear

Originally Posted by Jithiks

Hi Brindha,

An interesting topic ! Each stage in life is unique in its own way. As for the initial years, we are in total bliss since we are taken care of in all possible ways..and we don't even realize there is a negative/sad phase in life.

But at every stage, we can't wait to grow up...imagining it is going to be better than the present. :)

It is very difficult for me to choose just one stage Brindha...all are wonderful and have their share of plus and minuses !
Moreover, am yet to see all the stages..

Cheers
Krithika

Dear Kiru....

Yes each and every stage has its own effects on our life dear..Very true... Its not easy to Judge or just say..this is good and that is not... hmm...
Thanx dear....