Dear Alka- Why God is so cruel to you

Dear Shanti..
God sometimes is cruel very cruel... Lets pray him not to give any more difficulties to alka... let she and her children blessed with strength to overcome this bad situation.. My deep condolenses....

Love
brindha

hi Shanthi,

I feel very sorry for Alka. I can understand the situation she must be going through.
There is no words to console her.
It is going to take a long time to come out of it.
May God give her all strength to support her children

prabha

Dear Shanti,

Missed this thread, sylvia told me about it. MY heartfelt condolences to you and dear Alka and family. We pray that God gives her the strength to go through these initial days of pain and sorrow and emerge a stronger person for her children.
It must really be so hard for the children relocating and starting over, and its comforting that Alka has friends like you. Do take care of her and our prayers are with you and her as she comes to terms with such a loss and void in life.
Do take care
preethi

My heartfelt condolences to Alka and her kids. May God be with them during this hard time.

Shanti, as a friend, please be with her all thru her life, as at this time, she need a shoulder to cry and lean on.. and someone to give her courage to face this world.. someone to boost her confidence..

Dear Shanthi,

My heartfelt condolences to your dear friend Alka...

May Manoj bhai's soul rest in peace...

It is so sad...

Hi, I read your post and was deeply touched. I feel very sorry for Alka. I can only imagine how terrible a blow that must have been for her to loose him and have two children to look after. :( My heartfelt condolences.

Dear shanti,

Please accept my condolences.Life can be cruel really, and one can expect anything unexpected from this life.

I recently posted a blog here on Indus,regarding what if i died, what would my wife do

It was found by Ilites to be a dark and gloomy blog, different from my light blogs.

In that I had written about what may happen if I die first, and wife is left behind.

I have told my wife, that she is free to remarry if she so wishes.That if she goes first,I will not remarry, as once is enough.Sex is not everything inlife for me.

I told her no major death ceremonies for me, just put my ashes in the sea,or a river close by.

I have made my will and all bank nominations in her favour and she knows what to do.I do not want her to stretch her palms ever, god forbid.

Man thinks he is invincible and the hands of death will reach him when he crooses 80.Nop not true.

We must always be ready for it, whatever our age, and tell our spouse what to do in case one of them dies.And if possible to leave a little below yr means and save money in case of such tragedies, so that the wife has something to back on, as also the kids.

These are practical things, but people don’t pay attention , and then the grief multiplies manifold.Make ur wills and nominations, and hope for the best.

Regards.kamal

Kamalji,

What a practical and sensible approach to life! I was amazed to read your outlook of life and death..

How did your wife react when you said this? We often take people for granted since we think that our friends and loved ones are always going to be there..

Once I heard someone say, "every day before going to bed, think that you are not going to wake up tomorrow.. make peace with all people you crossed with, thank everyone for any small gesture, say "I love you" to the ones close to you.. If you wake up the next day, start the day as a brand new day with thanks to god and a clear mind.. I am not sure how much sense this makes but I was touched by this thought!

Well, you have inspired me to go and read your blog..

Cheers!
Sylvia

Dear Shanthi,

How is Alka now? How is she coping with the situation? Time is the best healer!

Regards
Sylvia