All for an Appalam,my dear!

Dearest Mithila,

I have been silently reading all your posts, enjoying them a lot and admiring your writing and narration abilities. Your writing is so endearing and exudes so much warmth that it is a sheer pleasure to read!

I love reading what you write. Please keep them coming. At least one everyday, if not more!
SS

Thank you so much.You have got apt name my friend,soaring spirit,my spirits soar on reading your lovely comment .Thank you
mithila kannan

Dear Revathi,
Thank you for making me laugh just before going to bed.Thats a good one.
Thank you for the comment.
mithila kannan

Dear Mithila Ma'm,

Simply superb! I was laughing throughout the read.... your writeups are so captivating.

I loved the comparison of B.com,bank employee with Tendulkar. And also taking pen and paper before a fight hilarious.Just imagining that scene!

In fact, every bit of your Appalam story was enjoyable.You are toooo good.


thanks and regards

meera

Dear Mythila mam

Iam really not used to read big ......posts.but after.dono y started reading urs........amnd this is also very great wrtie up by u..........i jus came to read this by its title.ALL FOR APPALAM...bcos even today we had bg fight in my house for appalam........hahaha.......who in this earth hate appalam.........

And, i too have seen many samandhi sandai so far in my cousins marriage........but the trend is changing.........now-a-days sambandhi's have bceome very close and friendly.....and they are ready to adjust for any situation...........but there are exceptions........... i am seing those persons too.even now........

I really enjoyed the post.mam......thank u very much for sharing.......

Pls keep sharing ur valuable writing with us.........waiting to read..........

dear mithila,

i just made a note of that pen and paper.........to use this tecnik before taking up a quarrel with my hubby...........a very good narration of the whole sambandi sandais........i have seen in most of the marriages....................but you have penned it down so superbly...............

love
padma

Dear Padma

Even i used to think of using pen and paper techniq.but sometimes we may misplace the paper..so i feel like it is better to do video recording...........while quarreling with hubby........hahaha.......i hope this will work out effectively

Very often i used to say my hubby..we have to place camera in evrynuke and corner so that .......we can rewind and see who has done this and that..who talked likethis and that..........due to many reasons i have not implemneted so far....even though at times i used to record our fight in mobile and play for him............hahahha

What a write up...flawless and you kept us glued till the end.

The pen and paper thing is followed in our family too. Even a message is to be passed they write it on a paper and then get everyones signature...so later on no one can say i don't know or escape anything.

Since ours is a big family ...we too distribute the work pressure in a similar manner during weddings.

Roopa.

Dear M ithila maam
Wonderful .Really enjoyed every bit of it.It reminded of those 1950s ananda vikatan stories which I am reading now.My late father used to tasks like your husband and I remember one of my chittappas was very furious that he could not get to see most of sister;s wedding as he was assigned to oversee the kitchen........Your writeup also took back my memories to my sister's wedding as well some of my cousins.........simply wonderful......................................:bo wdown

Dear mithila mam

A very nicely written and a touching incident. This reminds me of the incident similar to this happened in my friend s wedding about 15 years back, in chennai. But in this case appalam was replaced by poli.This ended in mixed feelings in both families and the worst part was this dragged on for a while in their life.

After a very long time,( as they say time will only answer,) they are doing fine now and she is happily married.

bye
kapuchu