Life will go on....

Yesterday my little daughter woke up with a bad cold and a mild temperature again. As always it put me in a gloomy mood, I can never be my normal self when she is unwell.

Till few months back she was on allopathy, but the colds seemed to be perennial and hence we decided to shift to homeopathy to atleast keep her immune systems active. About 6 months back is when I first took her to this homeopathy clinic near my house, the doctor was Mahender, a very gentle person. He would very keenly listen to the symptoms and then decide the medication, take the small containers with the white sugar balls and put the appropriate medicine over them. He would talk to the little one very lovingly. My daughter was thrilled with this new medicines as they were no more bitter, Off late she has started looking forward to these visits.

Just 3 days back we had gone to him to get medicine for her cough. Yesterday I decided that I will visit him in the morning before going to office. I was surprised to see the clinic shutters closed because he would promptly open the clinic at 8 in the morning ( making it so convenient for us working mothers ! ). As I was making up my mind to go and come back again in the evening, my driver noticed the phone number there and asked me to call up and find out if he would be coming in a while. I was still dialing the number, a lady came and told us that the doctor had passed away in his sleep in the night. He probably had a heart attack.....a feeling of sadness filled me...

Life is so uncertain.. whom I saw 3 days back, looked hale and healthy... is no more here.. but life will go on for others. I stopped there for 2 mins...and then returned home to drop my daughter and went to work...into those numerous meaningless meetings.... life will go on...


Regards
Rani

Rani,
that was very tragic.
Very true this life keeps going on no matter what happens.
when my dad passed away a couple of days back i felt me and mom cannot live any longer and its been 3 months life is going on ..i wonder every one in world are normal including us when something such big happened.my office work,my schedule,taking care of house hold stuff what not But YES all through the life i miss my dad .even my dad passed away by heart attack i have talked to him 1 hr before his death where he was passing jokes and normal.

usually when we hear something like this i know how bad it feels.But ya you are right this stupid life goes on and on and on


hope your daughter is fine now.i wish her speedy recovery

Dear
You have well said about the transient life. What ever happens life will go on. We may have memories and still we continue mundane work like eating, working sleeping and with passage of time we will come back to normalcy and with some memories.
I too lost my DH 3 months ago , all of a sudden, today iam working, taking care of my son and leading life. The car just moves and we move along. Sad ofcourse but still needs to carry on.Nothing is permanent in this world except the Divine.
Jaya

Very true.Life goes on.My father died 3 years ago and he was all in all for all of us.Just yesterday i was telling my sister how life goes on without him.He always used to keep saying time and tide waits for none and shadow of death passes away like a cloud in the sky.We latch on to something to carry on.
My heart goes out to you Jpatma,even my friend lost her husband 6 months ago and she is taking care of her son.I feel for her each day.I pray God to give strength to carry on.

HI dear,

we all have to accept death, there two things in life that have no plans and timimgs that is birth and death, when one is pregnant she will be given a date but the baby might come befofe or after the due date and death is hte same you do not know when it will come to you.
Yesterday morning my BF's father passed way in his arms, BF was at home as he was not well, his dad had gone for his morning walk in the near by club he had collasped and was revived and brought back home, he told BF that he had fallen down, soBF told him let me get redy we go to the doctor, his father laid down and woke up again BF was with him at that time and he vomitted and passed out there, he had a massive heart attack.
When he caled me he was crying and i told him, cherish the good times you have spent with him and also that you were at home when this happened,BF is the only son, his 2 sisters live in the UK they are married. When i called him at night he was ok and sounded better, he has to be strong for his mum and life will have to go on.
Death has to come to everyone, i lost my SIL, my cousin brother's wife in a plane crash in 2007 she was only 32yrs.

love
alpa

Over all I think god has given us this tremendous strength to overcome the death of our loved ones... how soon would depend on how much we loved them, how precious they were to us.

When my dad passed away 8 years back suddenly due to brain hemorrhage we felt as if the world had come crashing down, there was no meaning to anything that we did after that...there was this huge empty feeling with in. But slowly life moved on, we have more additions to the family now.. but every get together in the family we sure remember the good times we had during dad's time..we all miss him, missing him keeps him alive in our hearts.

We always WILL miss our loved ones. In fact, the feeling won’t ever go away completely !

Regards
Rani

hi
life has to go on & on whatever happens otherwise it would stagnant.

very true Rani,...the shock is too much when it is a sudden death but like everyone says life will go on..sad thought but true,nevertheless