Good or Tough - Its my life

Life is a connection of good and bad times, of successes and failures, challenges and headaches.
Sometimes we think that some things are impossible in life. But when the situation comes by God’grace we are able to manage.

When I was in school I used to see my mother cooking in Stove. I used to think how I will be able to cook in this stove. But times changed and the gas stove came which was easier to cook than stove. Those days we had lived without cot, without TV, without Fridge and without so many things but still we were happy only.

Nothing is impossible in life. Impossible is the word found only in the dictionary of fools. But still we worry about small small things. When I was working in the office in the year 2001 since our Company was taken over by anothercomapny we were offered VRS.

First it was very difficult for me to think of VRS. But we as staff had to take it. That time I used to think after being a working lady for 38 years how I will manage sitting at home without a job. When I took VRS I had only one and half years to retire.

It was not easy to think of leaving the job, though I would miss all my friends and the happy times I had with them, but I thought Iwill have time to relax and get lots of things done. All these years I did not have time to look after my family. Now I can spend the rest of my life taking care of my family.

In the beginning it was difficult for me to sit at home but I got used to it. I had all the time to take care of the family. No running for office to catch the bus in time . Everything could be done leisurely.

For two years after retirement my life was going on well, taking care of the house , attending religious functions etc. Then my daughter’s marriage was there. So got busy in that , had a chance to go to Chennai to buy sarees for the marriage as we had to go for my husband’s nephew’s marriage. Then next year my son also got married in the same month as my daughter. For my son’s marriage we had to go to <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-comffice:smarttags" /><st1:City><st1lace>Calcutta</st1lace></st1:City> for his marriage reception as the girl was from <st1:City><st1lace>Calcutta</st1lace></st1:City>. She is a
Bengali. That time first time we got a chance to go by flight. I enjoyed the trip as it was my first experience.

Then in September 2008 I registered myself in this site. Beginning I used to go through only certain forums. Of late I have got familiarized with all the forums and enjoy being a part of this site. Have acquired many friends , have learnt so many things and now when I am free I pass my time in this site.

The secret of true happiness is in a cheerful acceptance, a strong determination and sustained by adeep and abiding faith in God that He makes all things beautiful in His time.

 

Dear Bhargavi

Thanks for the first fb. You made my day. Life is easy if we take the things positive.

love
viji

 

Dear Padmini

Thanks for stepping in. Good to know you enjoyed the post. Ya I knowtamil . I am a tamilian. I had given reply to your tamil poem na. Dont you remember. Rightly you said Vazhaninaithal vaazhalam vazhiya illai vazhvadharku. Thanks for your compliments.

love
viji

 

Dear Jaya

Thanks for your fb. Feel happy byyour stepping in.

love
viji