Words plus Eggs should be handled with care

Viji,
I liked the 1st and the last para very much..
You can add to the list of words being compared to eggs...to milk spilled ...glass broken, spilled mustard seeds, etc...right..
Yeah, we should be careful in choosing words too...
In Thirukkural, Thiruvalluvar says...choosing harsh (bad) words instead of sweet, kind words..is like choosing a raw fruit when fully ripened fruit is available..

sriniketan

 

viji aunty,
good post. now i am remebering one pro verb "vinai vidhaithavan vinai arupan".My grandpa used to tell "if you hate one thing or one person,at any time you have to face that situation or person without any choice".
you are telling it by examples.enjoyed it.
bye for the moment.

 

Viji Aunty,

definite words of wisdom from your vast treasure of experience.

There are lot of people who don't think twice before saying a word, but would make hell to the opposite person if it was them in the same situation.

It is always better to think and talk, then to talk and think.

I think words and egss when broken cannot be taken back easily..and sometimes impossible.

Good one...keep them coming..

 

Dear Viji,

I loved your observation "Words plus eggs should be handled with care as words once spoken and eggs once broken are the hardest things to repair" - wonderful and so true.

In Kaliyugam, 'Kai Mela Palan', is what my dear MIL always said. According to sages, we must try and get rid of our old vasanas and karma and get good vasanas and increase good karma in this Kaliyugam. So speaking and thinking good things, doing good to others must be our goal...well, to follow this advice, we must think before uttering or doing anything.

You are able to compose verses that make so much sense, so easily.

Keep at it, Viji,

Love,
Padma

 

Dear Viji,
As usual well said. Words are to processed in our mind before we speak. Lot of thought has to be given before we speak, lest we hurt others unnecssarily. Even if we want to correct someone we can say it in positive words.:thumbsup

Your prayer is beautiful and you are exactly like the prayer.
May God bless you.
Jaya

 

Dear Viji Aunty,

Thanks for your snippet.

Harsh word really hurts.

Whenever people hurts me with their tongue sword, I could not forget that even they do some nice things later. As quoted in tirukkural, it remains as scar in my heart. When those people would learn, how they hurted me? (((((((((

Honestly, i never used any hurting words in first place. So, i dont see my fault in receiving those word arrows.

 

Dear Viji...

very well said... i could only remember this if i'm not wrong
" theeinal suthaa pun ul aarum aaradhey naavinal suttaa vadu" hope i have written correctly...:hide:

 

Dearest viji ,

My salutations to you...imagining you in front of me i prostrate at your feet for choosing such a meaningful, well thought of, most beautiful topic.:bowdown..i agree with you a billion times that only if people had control over their tongues...100% complications in the world would vanish..people are too quick to fall into judgement mode..and start criticising someone without any firm basis...i second you in every sentence you have written...i too believe in a lot of foresight and never pass comments on anyone ...i have seen several instances where ppl who commented are at the receiving end sometimes and feel their egos punctured to accept help from one they had criticized ..
You are the jewel of IL...Your topics are such a treat ...please give your blessings so that we get atleast .0001% of your enthusiasm:clap

Love
Padma