My first date

Lakshmi : I bow to her too........have to get her aashirwaad to make the day go by smooth

Originally Posted by LakNar

Hi Bhiku

I am glad that you got married.. I bow your wife..

Lakshmi

Hi Bhiku Bhaiya,
That was a nice narration. Enjoyed reading about your first date.
Thanks for sharing!

Suni : Thanks, glad you enjoyed this write up.

Originally Posted by lahy15

Hi Bhiku,

Nice write-up once again ... Thanks for sharing your first date experience and keep sharing more ...

Sindhu : Thanks
I guess the Bhaiya tag will stay with me as long as I am here

Originally Posted by Sindhuja

Hi Bhiku Bhaiya,
That was a nice narration. Enjoyed reading about your first date.
Thanks for sharing!

Hello Bhiku Bhaiya (looks like everyone address you this way and I have taken the liberty):

That made such a lovely read- thanks. You're definitely a winner.

I'm sure each one of us have a little story like this. I remember one of my boyfriends sent out a mail to the entire office asking for special ideas/ suggestions for our first date. After we dated for a while, whenever we bumped into someone they would give this "Oh this is the girl" expression. It was good initially, but got embarrassing over time.

It is indeed amazing to see how far some of you can go to make that first impression.

Would love to read more...

Prb.

Originally Posted by Bhiku Mhatre

I came to the US on a student visa in 1989, I was 18 then. I don’t know what I was thinking but I had a completely wrong picture of life in the US. May it was the movies I saw or the tales I heard from friends but I was under the impression that everyone here is rich and boys have a different girlfriend every week and life is one big party. Needless to say my myth was shattered in no time, my education and boarding expenses were taken care of by my parents but I had little to spend. I was also shocked on learning that the legal drinking age is 21, eventually I did find ways around it but that is a story for some other time.

The culture shock and home-sickness was a bit too much to handle and I had a hard time approaching the species from the opposite sex. My first year went without a date, friends from back home kept asking for pictures of my girlfriend(s) and I was too much of a man to tell the truth so I would make up one lie or another and buy time. At the end of the first year I returned home for a visit and I knew I could not go home without a picture. Fortunately we had a class mixer at the end of the year and I managed to have my picture taken with two white women. On my way home I guarded those pictures more than my luggage and showed them to all my friends.

I felt a lot more comfortable in my second year, as a foreign student I was not allowed to work outside but I did manage to get a job on campus. I worked at a medical library, 15 hours a week with a pay of $4.75 an hour. My calculation showed that I will get $71.25 but I forgot to factor in the inevitable – Taxes, with tax deductions my weekly pay was a measly $56.90.

During my second year I met Seema (name changed), she was a foreign student like me her parents were settled in the UK. We met a couple of times at mutual friend’s party and one day she informed me that she loves the name Raj and a week later our paths crossed and she waived to me and said “Hi Raj”. I jumped on the opportunity and asked her out and we were all set on our first date.

Even though I was making millions (sarcasm intended), I was strapped for cash and she was from a wealthy family so for her money was no object. I was too proud to admit my financial shortcoming and decided to show her a grand time. The first thing I did was to buy a pair of new shoes – what was I thinking??? They cost me $40 and for that date I had a total of $56 to spare. I was and still am (please don’t confirm this with my wife) a romantic, I thought it would be nice to buy roses for her. I could have bought one or two roses at a grocery store but no I had to go and buy a dozen roses from a flower shop – another $25 gone.

We had decided to go for a movie first then have coffee and then a walk by the lake which was about a mile away from our dorm. I walked a mile in my new shoes to the lake and hid the roses behind the bushes and walked back. The new shoes were stiff and hurting my toes and by the time I got back I was actually bleeding. My friend joked “Man, you need to stop right now – you haven’t even been on this date and this woman is making you bleed”.

We watched the movie and I was hoping to go to Dunkin Donuts for some cheap coffee but she had a fancy café on her mind, we drank expensive coffee and she was hungry so she decided to order fancy pastries. The bill came and that had to be the most embarrassing moment of my life, I had $13 left over and the bill came to $20. I swallowed my pride and asked her for a loan, the hurt ego and the bleeding toe had just about finished me but I was not ready to give up.

She was understanding though and said “You paid for the movie tickets so let me pay for coffee, I believe in sharing equally” (Thank god she did). We walked (I limped) to the lake but I salvaged the night by presenting her the roses. I tried that routine at the spur of the moment but got such a good reception that I repeated it several times in the future.

At the lake I told her that I really had to go pee, she gave me a disgusted look, I told her that nearest restroom is too far and so I would just go behind the bushes. She was totally grossed out, before she could object I left and returned with a bouquet of roses. I became the most romantic guy (in her eyes) and all her friends found out about my trick.

We did not marry each other, but we always had a good laugh about the first date.

Mhatre bhau,

Ram Ram

you have chosen a nice name 'Bhiku Mhatre'.very excellent writeup.Chivalry can make you pay a 'small' price sometimes .

You have so well put the downsides in living and working abroad.

regards
meera

Thanks for the comments.
Thanks to my first post I am getting known around here as bhaiya - though not particularly proud of that

Your story is very interesting, I can see how it would get tired and embarassing after a while but I bet your bf got some great ideas

Originally Posted by Prb

Hello Bhiku Bhaiya (looks like everyone address you this way and I have taken the liberty):

That made such a lovely read- thanks. You're definitely a winner.

I'm sure each one of us have a little story like this. I remember one of my boyfriends sent out a mail to the entire office asking for special ideas/ suggestions for our first date. After we dated for a while, whenever we bumped into someone they would give this "Oh this is the girl" expression. It was good initially, but got embarrassing over time.

It is indeed amazing to see how far some of you can go to make that first impression.

Would love to read more...

Prb.

Meeraji :
Ram ram
Thanks for the comments, I am glad you enjoyed this write up

Originally Posted by meera2503

Mhatre bhau,

Ram Ram

you have chosen a nice name 'Bhiku Mhatre'.very excellent writeup.Chivalry can make you pay a 'small' price sometimes .

You have so well put the downsides in living and working abroad.

regards
meera

Raji : Thanks, glad you found this amusing

Originally Posted by babyraji

haha on the whole very hilarious .enjoyed reading it.

Ram Ram Bhiku Bhaiya,

This one was really hilarious. Enjoyed it thoroughly.

My My Seema was floored by your name. Hmmm.