Did that hurt me? NO

4 days back my mother expired. It hasn't hurt me. I am forced to believe all the more of that great power called GOD. He was so kind he took the right step of not making a person suffer. She would have been at home with an oxygen cylinder which cannot be removed even for a second.

An independent lady who has done marvellous things in her life.


Through this thread may I thank all the 54 members who has been very very supportive. The moment Iget the strength to communicate I sahll definitely thank individually. kanaka

Kanaka,

My condolences to you and your family!

I know your mother lived a wonderful life , a very strong woman even at her age till her death.
I guess when you leave the world without a torturous end it means you lived a good life and im sure Your Mother did too. Till her end she dealt bravely with situations. And Im glad that you have inherited her strength.

Devika

dEar kanaka,

so sweet of u to be in touch with all of us...i saw it today only...heartening to know that she passed away without much suffering......i agree with u...we will never have enough of our parents....but they should not suffer...

regards
Mindi

Kanaka

I can understand the pain you are going through as i myself was there in the same situation few years back when my mother passed away.No one can fill the void inspite of so many loving and caring people around us,with your message i can feel that your a courageous woman,i wish and pray god to give you strength to get on soon.

lathaa

My heartfelt condolence....
I am glad you have taken it in good stride and also written about it in this period...that speaks about your mental strength!!
Something which i should really learn....

Dear Kanaka,

Good to know that you are strong..........May the divine power give you more strength............We must thank God for taking your mother, than giving her more sufferings, that too who has been so good..................Take care dear
one has to learn a lot from people like you..............

love
padma

Dear Kanaka

gd to hear frm u.gd tht u hav taken the situation in a positive way.after reading ur post i was reminded of a time of 2 yrs back when i lost my father.his death was all of a sudden ,n at tht moment my mother too opined in the same way .

do take care
raji

Hi kanaka...

I admire the spirit of yours for accepting the truth of life....so positively,

May your mother's Soul rest in peace

Anu

Dear Kanaka,

I really admire the guts and the strength you have. May be your mother has left you physically but she is always there blessing all of you.

May her soul rest in peace.

Dear Kanaka,

Inspite of the pain underneath, you have thanked us here and through PM..shows your strength.

May God help you through this time and may your mother's soul rest in peace.