Everything is beautiful once you change the way you see it.

Every person has the power to make others happy.
Some do it simply by entering a room
others by leaving the room.
Some individuals leave trails of gloom;
others, trails of joy.
Some leave trails of hate and bitterness;
others, trails of love and harmony.
Some leave trails of cynicism and pessimism;
others trails of faith and optimism.
Some leave trails of criticism and resignation;
others trails of gratitude and hope.
What kind of trails do you leave?
―William Arthur Ward​

Everyone in IL knows that I always have the habit of giving first fb because I always want to be the first in everything. Whenever I see a thread without any fb I grab the opportunity and give first fb. I dont realise that if I wait and give the fb later after others have given I can understand the thread well and then give a better fb than the first fb I have given. Actually later only I realise that in some cases I dont understand the thread properly and my fb might not be up to the mark.

Also in FP forum I wait for the thread for finest post of IL is opened every month and there also I give the first fb and also before the end of that month or beginning of next month all my four nominations are over. Later when I see some excellent posts I feel why I was in a hurry to give the nominations. I feel happy when others nominate the post which I could not nominate because of finishing my nominations.

So now I have decided I will wait and give fb later so that my fb will be better and upto the mark.

In some cases being first brings happiness to me and others ,like being first in the class , being first in other things where our goal is achieved.







There are two things to aim at in life: first, to get what you want, and after that to enjoy it. Only the wisest of mankind achieve the second.
Logan Pearsall Smith

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What a surprise RKG dear, I just saw you on line, so thought if you see my new thread you will definitely give me fb, thanks dear for the first fb and making my day with your first like and first fb.

I agree there is a thrill in giving and receiving the first fb but sometimes I feel the fb which I give for some threads might not be upto the mark

 

RKG dear I agree with you . I also feel so happy when I get the first fb also when get the likes, especially for my jewellery, drawing, rangoli etc because for that we have to put in so much hard work. Those people are great who appreciate our works in Hobbies, though it is only two words , saying it is superb or whatever they feel like saying for the work.I second your last line dear

 

True Jayakka dear I agree that first impression is the best impression. Thanks for sharing your views