My journey towards a new home

Dearie Meena,
Thanks a lot for ur kind words..I wrote this thinking more about how i would feel when my younger sis leaves home after wedding than mine! So you have experienced these emotions huh.....Wait n watch ur's would be more..(i wish not).Take care dear...

Originally Posted by Meenaneelakantan

Dear Aishu ma'am

Now pls dont RantRantseeing me here...Jus wanted to tell you that your write-up is great!! You left tears in my eyes...Now pls don't imagine things..
I mean to say i remembered the times when my sisters' were on their journey towards their new homes..



A powerful line...

to you..

Love
Meena

Dear Aishu

Very nicely written. All of us go through the same emotions when we leave from the protective confines of our homes and enter in to the in laws house.

Even after 8 yrs of marriage and 2 children later i still feel the same pangs every time i leave my mom's house after my visits. It is not because of not settling down well in my new home or not adjusting with in laws etc but i guess there is still a small child lurking in me and also in each and every one of us especially when we are under our mother's protective care. Where ever i am , how ever happy or contended i am with my present position as a wife and mother a small part always longs to be back under mom's protective care..to be a child again...

With warm regards
Jay.

Nice write up aishu......explaning the practical happening in a girls life

Mine was a love marriage and as i made my mind intact not to cry , as that would make my mom feel depressed , as she had managed all the odds to make my marriage succesful without any help except for my younger sister. ( i had lost my dad a year above then) i was actually like a emotional hold for them and pretty well they would least wish to see me off but alas, its our second label - womenhood where we need to respect the institution of marraige and bid good bye .

my mom passed away by 2006 and i still regret for not making most of my time with her as i was not allowed to meet her often.........after my wedding .

Now i have no home to look back too........aishu your write up had rewinded my video album......Thanks for that.

Cheers
Ramya

Dear Jaynat,
Thanks for stepping in and for ur kind words.Very true Jay, everytime i feel the same when i bid a good bye to mom n dad.But the first time ever after wedding is too painful....i even have a habit of staying back indoors...not having courage to see them off..

Originally Posted by Jaynat

Dear Aishu

Very nicely written. All of us go through the same emotions when we leave from the protective confines of our homes and enter in to the in laws house.

Even after 8 yrs of marriage and 2 children later i still feel the same pangs every time i leave my mom's house after my visits. It is not because of not settling down well in my new home or not adjusting with in laws etc but i guess there is still a small child lurking in me and also in each and every one of us especially when we are under our mother's protective care. Where ever i am , how ever happy or contended i am with my present position as a wife and mother a small part always longs to be back under mom's protective care..to be a child again...

With warm regards
Jay.

Dear Ramya,
Thanks for ur kind words.Yah it happens to every girl..an emotion filled moment in life.I'm sorry to hear about ur parents loss..but all i can say is "Even this will pass".Be cheerful Ramya..Dunt worry, you always have a second home IL isnt it?? Please be consoled that you have so many Ilites as ur sister/mother here.Speak it out if ur grief sticken and we are always here to help u dearie....

Originally Posted by rs18

Nice write up aishu......explaning the practical happening in a girls life

Mine was a love marriage and as i made my mind intact not to cry , as that would make my mom feel depressed , as she had managed all the odds to make my marriage succesful without any help except for my younger sister. ( i had lost my dad a year above then) i was actually like a emotional hold for them and pretty well they would least wish to see me off but alas, its our second label - womenhood where we need to respect the institution of marraige and bid good bye .

my mom passed away by 2006 and i still regret for not making most of my time with her as i was not allowed to meet her often.........after my wedding .

Now i have no home to look back too........aishu your write up had rewinded my video album......Thanks for that.

Cheers
Ramya

Those words were so comforting aishu

Thanks a ton..........

Cheers
Ramya

Hi Aishu,

With your write-up you have brought back the fond memories of our Bidaai.

Its such a mixed feeling on one hand you are leaving behind the family who have nurtured you and on the other you are on treshhold of a new life awaiting to welcome you.

For me even after 14 yrs of marriage i and my mom are inconsolable every time i visit them....maybe coz they are alone and aged now...as we are 3 sisters.

What Kamalji has mentioned hold true for many of us here...but for me my husband is a great support and he always says stay focused on what you are doing...so if i am out of the house for whatever reason...i am supposed to forget home and be focused on my activity.

Roopa.

Dear Roopa,
Thanks for peeping in.I agree with what you have writtern, its indeed a mixed feeling...Good to hear that ur DH is very supportive

Originally Posted by roopadadia

Hi Aishu,

With your write-up you have brought back the fond memories of our Bidaai.

Its such a mixed feeling on one hand you are leaving behind the family who have nurtured you and on the other you are on treshhold of a new life awaiting to welcome you.

For me even after 14 yrs of marriage i and my mom are inconsolable every time i visit them....maybe coz they are alone and aged now...as we are 3 sisters.

What Kamalji has mentioned hold true for many of us here...but for me my husband is a great support and he always says stay focused on what you are doing...so if i am out of the house for whatever reason...i am supposed to forget home and be focused on my activity.

Roopa.

The way you have expressed is really superb and i was reminded of my days aishu. Keep it up.

Dear SB,
Thanks so much for ur kind words..so felt nostalgic huh??

Originally Posted by shakila banu

The way you have expressed is really superb and i was reminded of my days aishu. Keep it up.