What happens at 40 and 60 years of age?

Sri,

Well said.

At 60, my take is u should become like a ghost, disappear from the lives of your loved ones.By this time yr kids are in the mid thirties, married and settled, and are living their own lives.So dont interefere with them, or give advise.

I may be wrong, but this is my take.And i am a ghost already these days.I am 55,and close to becoming a ghost.HAHA.Regards.kamal

Kamalji,

You are becoming a ghost---it is being evident in your post on this...you are giving advise in the name of 'my take'...
Maybe that's the reason for your snippet--'My old age'...mm, just kidding...

as you had mentioned, we must maintain our distance, otherwise we may look like ghosts, true.....

sriniketan