How Do You React To These People In Your Life

Do you come across these people?

People in position expect you to give them something in return for the help extended like:

I got you a job better do something equal to the salary at least..
Sir but I thought
Never mind what you thought ask my wife she wants to meet you:
A big list of wedding vessels and saris and what not given to me..

I got you a job after all it is not such an easy stuff please pick and drop me on your way to the office and back at least let me be free from petrol charges..
Its been two years and am still taking her to and fro and however late, I need to wait and pick her up as she is my boss..

I got you the orders come on I don’t have to say that I also get what you send :
One more package of food parcel packed along … he he he no complaints though mm?

Hey my bro got you the job right?
Yeah so ?
Better give his wife sarees from priya simran the exclusive because she likes only from that…
Each sari is not less than 4000/ at least of her choice and ok my four months salary gone that too a contract job, not a permanent one, later after one year again another two saree to extend the contract and until i get permanency which is not so easy in mnc

Government job then it is big deal pa, send your wife she is too beautiful..
I have a son the man boasts and sees to it that he is well taken care of for his life, Boasts about it as he does not have any issue in the marriage.

But, the man concerned has an illegitimate child to feed for the rest of his life and wear guilt always when he receives the salary what a big compromise???

I am your elder so take care of all my needs, didn’t I bring you up like a parent when we never had any income.
I swipe, swipe and swipe for the rest of my life for being the only last one in the family parents gone peacefully to heaven…

Be happy your family has got property for giving you to us for adoption,
And wash my bottom well after all your entire family is enjoying the free house given to them.

So my service is considered only for their benefit of my so called family and not as a soul doing all this because I love you as your adopted child? Life and its priorities…



how do you react to such souls in your life...sunkan

Avoid getting favors from others. Even if you are forced to get some little favors be firm about not giving in to their undue demands even at the risk of losing their favor. Warn others about such people.
Lakshmi

Dear Sunkan,

We pray to god that he should never put us at the receiving end give us strenght that we can give whatever we can.

But in business front...we can't escape this...the govt. officials stomach are like "barson se bhuke hain" how much ever you feed them they are still hungry and even after doing all this they throw tantrums in doing the work even though there is no discrepancy and everything is clear.

For us we are all employees and the management is abroad and they just don't understand all this so sometimes we are in such a soup.

Roopa.

Dear Sunkan,

Fortunately or unfortunately.... I have seen such people and worked with such people... Fortunately for me, I have not been on the receiving end...

I have helped a lot of people.... Now you are giving me Ideas.... Great... I should seriously look into this.... hahahahaha

Hope Shan is not reading this.... Else... you know better....

Fortunately for me my better half is just like me... She hates taking something something... Else, my life would have become miserable....

Originally Posted by lakshmi1945

Avoid getting favors from others. Even if you are forced to get some little favors be firm about not giving in to their undue demands even at the risk of losing their favor. Warn others about such people.
Lakshmi

not when u r at the receiving end, i have had the first hand experience here and know how the web gets weaved and weaved, some never change and i hate them for that, i never seek any fav, would love to help if i am in a position to do so...sunkan

Originally Posted by roopadadia

Dear Sunkan,

We pray to god that he should never put us at the receiving end give us strenght that we can give whatever we can.

But in business front...we can't escape this...the govt. officials stomach are like "barson se bhuke hain" how much ever you feed them they are still hungry and even after doing all this they throw tantrums in doing the work even though there is no discrepancy and everything is clear.

For us we are all employees and the management is abroad and they just don't understand all this so sometimes we are in such a soup.

Roopa.

dear roopa,
the enormity is what irks me, imagine conducting a wedding with things brought by these people, why conduct at all right, and to make the person spend for an auto up and down wait and then come along and listen to all rubbish thrown at on the way up and down, try to stifle their life and make them regret why they took the job offered at all....sunkan

Originally Posted by Vysan

Dear Sunkan,

Fortunately or unfortunately.... I have seen such people and worked with such people... Fortunately for me, I have not been on the receiving end...

I have helped a lot of people.... Now you are giving me Ideas.... Great... I should seriously look into this.... hahahahaha

Hope Shan is not reading this.... Else... you know better....

Fortunately for me my better half is just like me... She hates taking something something... Else, my life would have become miserable....

these things are usually not done with the better halves, but in relation very close where you cant tell your opinion, and have to bear the brunt.

all these things happen to people who have nobody to back their life, and if this article had been in tamil the title would be dayavu thanks for dropping in veda, its been a long time ..sunkan

Good one Sundari
Thats the reality
Avoid getting anything in the first place
But thats easier said than done.
It s apity such people exist but they are also the majority too!!

Dear sunkan,
My god.Expecting something in return.This Attitude cannot be compramised.When we help others and expect the same from them,then the meaning of help goes in vain.....

Thanks for sharing.....

Originally Posted by anandchitra

Good one Sundari
Thats the reality
Avoid getting anything in the first place
But thats easier said than done.
It s apity such people exist but they are also the majority too!!

thanks chitra for your comments and yes
we have these quality filled people around a lot in our day to day
life, only thing is when the favor asked then we are left with
wonder, why now, may be i am at exposure don't know..sunkan