The thing I do Best is Blunder to Others..

Dear Riya,

How many cards and such invitations do you expect us to preserve? Then we would get a room full of cards only. Atleast it was such a good intention of yours to make it into an umbrella for Ganesh Chathurthi, you felt the god would bless the little angel. It takes time for your dear friend to analyse all these! Just leave it cool and chill out!

 

No I dont think you did anything wrong...infact there are many people who just throw it out..when she is calm,call her and explain to her the situation..m sure she will be sorry and you both will be back to the happier days.

Regards,
Ashima

 

You did not do anything wrong.. instead u did wonderful thing by using the card in good way

generally i keep the card till the function is over and then throw it.. what else we should do and how many we can save.. ur friend is over reacting.. and her hubby has acted silly by telling this to her

 

My Dear Riya,

It all just happens....Don't mind.....Sometimes even I wonder how things can take a twist and change...

I just want to share an incident with you....

Once I took my younger co sister to my gynecologist as she had some problem with her monthly pm's. The doctor was our family doc .She explained her the problem and she insisted her to go for a 3- month treatment course where she insisted to give my co sister some tablets. The doctor also told that she can't be pregnant during this course. My co sister came back saying that she will decide with her husband and then she will visit the doctor. I did not say anything as it had to be decided b/w a husband and wife....

You know what happened later???? She just called all my relatives and told them that I am forcing her to take contraceptives which she and her husband did not want to do. My elders are a bit with traditional ideas. Now you can imagine what scene it had created.....

There are some people who does not want to be practical and lead a simple life. They want all those filmy emotions spiced up for them in their life. Those people create such scenes which you should neglect to the core.

Beware of such people.......

Regards,
Geetha Rao

 

Certain things in life wen it happens, u feel very disturbed and feel worried...but later in life if u re- think that incident it will make u feel that was such a small thing and I shudn't have worried that lot...... as life passes on these will be so silly to worry about...I pity ur friend whoever she is becos taking this simple matter so serious is not a good approach to life juct neglect her ignorant thing ,if u worry too much nd let her know that u feel bad...she'll take that as her best part and she'll hurt u more...just pass on that will make her feel o I I'm so kiddish....

 

Give her time. But if you dont talk to her how do you expect her to see that it has been given such a great place in your home and heart? And m absolutely not saying that you have done anything wrong :hide:..you haven't!! What I meant by 'explain' the situation is tell her what you actually thought and did! :bonk And if she is indeed such a good friend of yours, as per my opinion you clearly understand that it maybe your friend got better of her emotions than brain and said all those things..then why not try and clear the sour feelings sooner?There is no harm in giving it a try. :cheers