Meanest Mom and Dad

Hi,

Even my three year old says to me Mommy I DON'T LIKE YOU .You are grumpy at me.I was surprised and laughed.then I explained her.

This is all they learn from school and its our job to let them know what is right and how to talk n act.

Ditto with me , my older girl is 8 and she keeps saying that Iam bad and rude. Okey!! Dokey!!!! with me I told her I need t teach her how she needs to behave. That at times makes them say what they really don not mean. After a while she will say actually you are not bad, but.... this and that . She will make up for what she said. Don't worry.

I will advise you to ignore it. It also shows that your child is short tempered. Learn to handle her delicately. Need not worry, in our school and college days, the only people we hate the most are our parents. As age catches up people realise how valuable were their advise. So be cool.

Hello Shanthi

Thanks for stepping in to reply. As you said I should have to advice her later. Will do it.

Cheers
Lakshmi

Hello Krish

Thanks for stepping in. They are learning a lot from their friends and also from T.V.

Lakshmi

Hello Janani

Thanks for stepping in.

Cheers
Lakshmi

Hello Lotus

Thanks for stepping in.

Lakshmi

Dear Sashmitaa
Do not worry.Maybe at the spurt of the moment they say that.They do not mean it.When their anger dies down they become lovable.When they are in good mood it is upto the parents to make them understand that parents are the persons who havelot of concern and affection for them.They will understand.

Hello Kanaka

Thanks for stepping in. These kids dont know what they are doing and telling. Now she is o.k. She threw away that paper in garbage and said to me amma nobody is mean.

Lakshmi