To be or not to be

I always wanted to be a home maker.So I am one.I wanted to study further.I did my masters in History 3 years back and I really enjoyed it.I intend to study further..I have never felt bored being a home maker.It is so relaxing and enjoyable.You have time for everything.There is something or the other to keep you occupied.I t is truely enjoyable................

Dear Srinik,

Nice... intersting topic... Saw various view points.... I am eagerly waiting for Shan to respond.....

On the lighter side.... I am working even before and after marriage... This concept of Veettoda Maappillai and all.... is it only in the movies hai kya...????????....

Hello Sriniketan
Another interesting topic nice one. I choosed to be a home maker. after my studies worked with dad in his firm but just for experience. As in our community usually ladies don't work but now I know everyone works. In spare time did some odd stuffs, when kid started going to school in spare time, But always prefered to be a homemaker. and today I am happy and proud to be one. As looking after the house and family I get lot of time to do something on my own, merry around and all

Dear Mrs. Pushpavalli,
thanks for your response.
I second your opinion.

sriniketan

Hi Kanaka,
Knowledge is strength, indeed!
yeah, it keeps us engaged, non-stop which at times need a break---isnt' it?

sriniketan

Veda,
thanks for stepping in!
Me too waiting for Shan's response.
I totally accept that you are a career person before and after marriage.

only in cinemas, fighting, duets with many people is possible and so this is ;veettodda maappillai' case. 'sach bolthe ho, yaar'

sriniketan

Aruna,
Thanks for the FB.
Taking time for ourselves in our hectice work, is indeed an art!
Enjoy!

sriniketan

Hi Sriniketan

Nice thread indeed!
I believe the phrase - 'working women' doesnt make sense!!
Why???
Because every woman is always working - employed or not - home or home+job.
And i firmly think that with the extra responsibility of being able to bear the baby of the family she is the superhuman-being!

As for me, i am a career person and love the financial independance and awareness that it gives me. But due to the choice i made, i am currently sitting at home - VISA restrictions. Anyhow, i am trying to enjoy this break for me coz once i am back to my career life, there are no breathers whatsoever.

Cheers!
Charu..

Charu,
Thanks for your FB.
I accept 100% your explanation for working women.

Relax now and advanced wishes for your career ahead!

sriniketan

Dear Sri, interesting topic. I was career minded person always. I started appearing for competitive exams as soon as i completed 18 years of age and many jobs came thro' in central excise dept, insurance etc. I chose insurance and started working and got married after 2 years. I continued to work for the next four years as i didnot have issues till then. Then my darling daughter was born. I exhausted all the leave i had stayed with her for about 10 months and after that i didn't feel like going for work and she also started missing me very much once i started working. She used to be very sensitive and used to cling to me once i get back from work. My husband and i started feeling for her. But i couldn't quit the job as it was a govt. job and for us it was something important at that stage. Then my husband started looking for jobs outside the country. He got a good placement in Kuwait. When we decided to take up the offer we made it a point that i wouldnot work on coming to Kuwait. When my daughter had completed her 2 years we came to Kuwait and i didn't take up the job offers that came my way afterwards. I am fully devoting my time for my child and hubby and we make a happy family. I am enjoying each and every development of both of them and happily taking care of their needs. I gives me immense pleasure to be a homemaker now. I feel i have tasted both sides of the cake now.