Any Mrr In Your Family

Today was watching an old tamil movie of Shivaji Ganeshan pachai vilakku, and M.R.Radha the villian is ever green villain of those years, this tapped my mind to the present, how many of us have an MRR in our family, who are only envious of any situation and never let us come up, they spend their time making other’s life miserable and they love to put the fear of life in all..

Even mahabharatha had a shakuni, who never wanted his sister to be happy, likewise we have so many among us who want to see to it that we never smile, these people are not aware of their assets and are never bothered about their outlook, they are always scheming some plot to destroy the future of others, take away the assets and leave them in tears.

These kind of people can be seen from when young, they love to see the children standing on an ant hill so that the red ants bites the child and they laugh so much u wonder how they could, they like to command, always love to have people under their control, and anything going good in other’s way is not withstood.

They are great schemers wait for an opportunity to topple any nice planning, like the education of a child, as their child is unable to study, some ten hindi books were hidden by my uncle so that I get beaten black and blue and my parents could not afford that many books for a semester or for that year, all because he had a spastic child.

Any brilliancy on other’s part is ridiculed, for some reason people get convinced by these characters easily and they fire the innocent for no reason, they go to the extent of evening poisoning them so that they want to see the them suffer and lose all in life, by loosing their partner.

Challenges and so many plots were laid and in the end only their death brought peace to people around they were named tail twisters by the crowd, as they could create misunderstanding among many, they are but a few, but live life kingsize making it miserable for others….sunkan

Sunkan,
We see a lot of people in our daily life, just like the one you had mentioned.
I don't want to name the relationship, but i also went through that. making others life miserable cannot be tolerated, at all.
I even tell my hubby that maybe 'they don't know what they are doing' but my hubby answers that 'they know what they are doing and it is a shame on their part!'
Can't imagine how those people survive, maybe they are called 'parasites'.

sriniketan

Hello Sunkan/Sriniketan,
These kinds of people are called 'SADIST', they feel happy by seeing other people in problems.

~Punitha

Originally Posted by Sriniketan

Sunkan,
We see a lot of people in our daily life, just like the one you had mentioned.
I don't want to name the relationship, but i also went through that. making others life miserable cannot be tolerated, at all.
I even tell my hubby that maybe 'they don't know what they are doing' but my hubby answers that 'they know what they are doing and it is a shame on their part!'
Can't imagine how those people survive, maybe they are called 'parasites'.

sriniketan

Rightly said, Punitha!

sriniketan

Dear Sundari Madam,

Yes. There are people in every household like MRR. Often jealousy is the driving force behind them. Unfortunately, they also get the same respect that are shown to good people. Just to quote the dialogue from 'Mahanadhi' Kamal Haasan movie, ' Nallavangaluku kidaikira mariyathai athanaiyum kettavangalukkum kidaikuthu'. But, as Rajnikanth dialogue ' kettavangaluku aandavan niraiya kodupan, aana kadaisile kai vittuduvan '. I have seen these people just waste their energy and time in such cynical, jealous and sadist actions and they succeed to some extent in dividing the families, break relationships etc. Best is to ignore them.

Regards,

TDU

As Tdu sir it is best to ignore them.They will get what they deserve one day.God will take care.

Originally Posted by Sriniketan

Sunkan,
We see a lot of people in our daily life, just like the one you had mentioned.
I don't want to name the relationship, but i also went through that. making others life miserable cannot be tolerated, at all.
I even tell my hubby that maybe 'they don't know what they are doing' but my hubby answers that 'they know what they are doing and it is a shame on their part!'
Can't imagine how those people survive, maybe they are called 'parasites'.

sriniketan

they are parasites ma, when they die vow what a relief and i can add sukoon in hindi here...sunkan

Originally Posted by puni88

Hello Sunkan/Sriniketan,
These kinds of people are called 'SADIST', they feel happy by seeing other people in problems.

~Punitha

dear puni,
u name what u want but they become our life long 7 1/2 X so many, rahu kalam anything you name...sunkan

Originally Posted by Tamildownunder

Dear Sundari Madam,

Yes. There are people in every household like MRR. Often jealousy is the driving force behind them. Unfortunately, they also get the same respect that are shown to good people. Just to quote the dialogue from 'Mahanadhi' Kamal Haasan movie, ' Nallavangaluku kidaikira mariyathai athanaiyum kettavangalukkum kidaikuthu'. But, as Rajnikanth dialogue ' kettavangaluku aandavan niraiya kodupan, aana kadaisile kai vittuduvan '. I have seen these people just waste their energy and time in such cynical, jealous and sadist actions and they succeed to some extent in dividing the families, break relationships etc. Best is to ignore them.

Regards,

TDU

ignore i would had loved to TDU but when they rule you and all your fate is in their hand, that is the time you feel what have i done to get this treatment and our great hinduism dialogue irukkavey irukku thalai vidi or poorveega janmathu pavam, but no solution, sk

Dear sunkan,
There are more MRR's, shakuni's, duryodanan's, ravanan's and may be even some one who is all put together than we can ever imagine.
I have never believed the saying "Blood is thicker than water". Because, i have seen and experienced first hand how thick and dense the blood relations are. My father had 8 siblings, 5 were sis and 3 bro's. Unfortunately, not even one of them had a girl baby and i was the first girl baby of the family.when i say this people would often think i was pampered by my father's side relatives, but the fact is stinking false. And to add fuel to the fire, my sister came along. But not till date my father has felt bad about us and we have made him proud, because we will be the only girls to dress up among those plain trousers and shirts. We love to sport with our Flashing sarees and jewellery to irritate them. They thought my father would never come up in life having daughters, but God was and is with us throughout to snub them. Unfortunately they influenced my mom and once in a while she used to feel bad for not having a son. i have told her i will give her a grand-son. And i hope god will grant that wish for her.