my life's purpose

MY LIFE'S PURPOSE

I alwaz wake up in the morning ,wondering what should i do today to change my life? what is that i alwaz wanted to do that i can do for pleasure and feel happy that i enjoyed my life.u know i realised that growing up is such a difficult thing hmm..ya isn't it sound funny..i alwaz believed that everyone has a purpose in this world,so do i have but it was difficult to find for what...i alwaz thought im not capable of anythng such as studies,sport or culture item in school life..now i realised my world dont stop there...there is sumthng in me so powerful and good and that is my attitude...i like to inspire others...ya there are times when i melt down for no reason...but i know first i should inspire myself then only i can do it for others..
when u ask to a child what they want to be in their future,they say "i want to be a doctor or teacher"..now its more advanced..hmm..because i know what my cousins would say if i asked them same question...even i was the same...but now i have changed....when i go to sleep,i just pray to God that make me a good human...because where ever we be that is really important...
there are bad and good times in everyones life,same here...i alwaz thought only i had to face i did,but then i slowly realised what i go thru is nothing compare to others. i have good parents,brothers and sister...ya we all do fight..but its sumtimes fun too...but i use to not feel this way before...specially with my mom...she gets angry soon even me...then everythng goes wrong...i use to hate myself because i dont like to hate others or even get angry on others...but i did...i had bad temper many times...i cried and cried...thinking no one loves me but that was my time to realise that i had to be strong and patient....and started understanding things from others point of view...i started recognizing others emotions that are not expressed but it is inside them specially my family that is the place where everything starts and ends....when i started understding my family i started to controling my temper and calm down when sumone made fun of me or irritated me,that is the time i realised why to get mad for no reason....
i believe we dont need be mothers to understd their emotions and behaviour,we just need a heart to read them calmly.our parents may not physically express affection and care but inside thier heart they alwaz worry for us.they care for every child equally but its difficult to understd thru their talks....but i know all parents love their children equally.
everyone's life has a purpose and now i know mine its to spread love,show kindness and give charity.that is what i can do for myself and others...our all life's revolve around each other so why to hate or have negativity for others.....sumtimes its good to lose for ur loved ones....u win in the end...
thank you.

Very nice one, Chocoqueen!

Enjoyed the way, you put it in words.
It is true that if everybody realises their life's purpose, there will be no hatred or war going around!
I liked the last line, very much!

sriniketan

dear Sriniketan,
thanks 4 ur kind words.i love to share my thoughts and i guess every one should open up and say whats in there heart.

Hi chocoqueen,
First i would like to appreciate your name(user name)chocoqueen.So are you??Am i right??The article which you have written lifts up your emotions,says you have experienced life,underwent both good and bad.This is what i extrapolated.Well.Coming back,i appreciate your writing,good to read.You said that our difficulties are nothing when compared to others.That is extremenly right.Also when sometimes we may think at times of difficulties in life that "what's more in life" and when age and experience comes our hand,we may slowly realise that life has got some purpose and some meaning.We are born to achieve not only something but many things in life.I remember some words of great men

Life is a game;play it
Life is an entertainment;enjoy it
Life is a challenge ;face it.

And so on.
There is famous tamil song from one of the old film

In tamil(unnammum keezhey ullavar kodi Ninaithu paarthu nimadhi naadu")
starting words("mayakkammaa kalakkamaa")

You mean to convey this fact in the piece you written.

Also one more thing.I don't know the exact tamil translation.But still i am translating the famous saying in english.

No man has neither lived happy for a long time;nor sad for a long time.That is it.

I enjoyed.Keep up.

dear ma'am,
thank u so much.i like when sumone appreciates me and inspires me.i am very happy now.i love chocolates thats how i named it "chocoqueen".i like ur response,that is the best way to improve my writing and feel good that i wrote sumthng from my heart.thank u once again.

Oh dear chocoqueen,
You called me Ma'am.(just joking)I am not so matured.You can call me by my name.

Originally Posted by chocoqueen

dear ma'am,
thank u so much.i like when sumone appreciates me and inspires me.i am very happy now.i love chocolates thats how i named it "chocoqueen".i like ur response,that is the best way to improve my writing and feel good that i wrote sumthng from my heart.thank u once again.

oh i am sorry.ur name is so long so i thought to call u ma'am...if u have a shorter version,i would surely use that.hmm..

Hello Chocoqueen
That was a beautiful write up expressing oneself and the best is knowing oneself. There are very few in this world who knows the purpose of living. It would be so wonderful if people think this way. The world will be full of happiness. Forgiving each other is also an art which everyone can't have it.
Bhargavi's words are good

Life is a game;play it
Life is an entertainment;enjoy it
Life is a challenge ;face it.

All of us should remember these words

Nothing.I was just joking my dear.You call me whatever you like.

Originally Posted by chocoqueen

oh i am sorry.ur name is so long so i thought to call u ma'am...if u have a shorter version,i would surely use that.hmm..