Want to end my life :(

Hey Simran,
Just think of it in very simple terms - It is YOUR LIFE. Why should you die just because your DH and ILs are such idiots that they can't appreciate you? Its their loss, not yours.
Only you know the entire story of what's going on in your life.There are a lot of little, intangible things that mere words cannot convey.So I would ask you to step back and assess your priorities.Your mental health and happiness are very important and don't ever think that those two factors can be compromised.Assess what's important to you and how you want your life and future to turn out.Take your DH aside ( go out to a quiet place or restaurant or something) and talk firmly with him.He has as much responsibility towards you as he has to his parents.He needs to be reminded that.He also needs to know that you are extremely unhappy and he should start trying to see things from your POV.Hopefully something will strike a chord in him and make him see sense.

But whatever happens, don't ever hurt or harm yourself.No one -not your DH or your ILs is worth it.If nothing can be done, seek your parents' help and try to get out of the marriage.

All the best and sending you lots of Positive Energy :)

Hi Simran,

I know it is very tough to be the wife of a Mammas boy husband. But dont lose heart!
Can you please read my post, IN AN UNHAPPY MARRIAGE. I had a similar situation.
Hope this helps!

NO USE , NO ONE WILL GAIN EXCEPT FOR YOUR TORMENTORS !!!!!

See 90% of the women in India will be dead in this way , this is situation every where , just fight back. And start valuing yourself.
Talk to a very close friend about everything , who is not very judgemental .

DONT DO THIS ....OKAY , WRITE TO ME BACK if you have non-one to talk.

I have also faced this situation , I too decided like you , but I started searching for solutions ....remembers all solutions are not the happiest from all angles , but atleast maximum beneficial okay !!

relax simran.
by endig your life, you are just making them win..
blankly say no to work, stsrt speaking openly to your hubby

Pls dear dont end up ur life
god has sent u to this world to do ur purpose ...
most of the ladies are facing so many problems so be brave dear and iam sure you will come out of this ...
ur in my prayers ..i shall pray for u ..

For the sake of ur dh and mil u want to loosr ur life no way dont give them the chance ... nor dont even think in those lines
you r very well educated and prove ur self what ur iam sure .. ur parents would also ready to help u ...
think abt ur parents who has given u the education and everything what u want so prove ur self what ur be bold friend

i also said many times sorry to my inlaws to make my dh and my inlaws ego satisfy they r never going to change ...for no fault of mine that is how my dh would be satisfied making their parents proud of what my dh did to them .. asking me to tell sorry he also knows very well that iam not at fault but still got to do ...so dont think in those lines .. most of the people are going through these sort of problems only death is not the only solution

if ur really stressed out then apply for divorce why do u wan t to end ur life for these people who are not worth for u..