A big NO.

Not again. Just during my marriage when my DH visited my Sis's ... my sis thought that my DH was a matured guy so therefore said that our girl does not listen to people at home and takes her own decision and not to let her on her way after marriage. Well she didnt know that my DH was such an idiot who could call home and complain abt small silly stuff.
He made every tom dick and harry give suggestions to me - on how to lead peaceful life as he wd complain to them. While I was handling family responsibilities from the age of 16 working till I got married - Not only financially i was supporting but also emotionally to my aged parents.
Those words of my sis happened to be one of the reason for my DH to screw up my happiness. Till today he says that I am irresponsible and now he has one more thing to add up that once our Kid is born also I wd be the same and he is now worried abt it. God.
In anger he can kill a person both verbally and physically and later say Sorry.
I was like a butterfly even though I had lots of responsibilities to shoulder. But now am a Prisoner in this alien land :)