A catch-22 situation

Hello friends,

I have trouble interacting with my SIL. She is a very nice, helpful, pious person but on the other hand she is a "very" sensitive person. She often reads between the lines. I thought I would maintain a distance with her by minimizing my interactions with her, but my hubby is not happy with that thought. Can U guys help me figure out the issue ??

I think you should be nice to her. Some people are sensitive. She is your husband`s sister. What if your sister or in future your daughter behaves that way. Do you leave them. Learn a way where you interact with her, good to her, but be careful not to hurt her or your husband. Learn to talk carefully with her. Observe your husband or somebody who keep good relation with her.

Hi,

If she is nice, helpful, careing and good to you then you must have to be nice to her as well. You are among those lucky people who got a nice SIL. If she is very sensitive then just don't hurt her and try to adore her a lot instead of making distance from her. If she is really good to you then in that case for few problem your husband will never like you to make distance from her. If anything hurts you then tell to your husband gently and keep the same relationship with your SIL.