My Shocking 1st anniversary gift from Inlaws

Hi Friends,

I got a shocking gift as my 1st anniversary gift from my inlaw parents.
it is

TWO NIGHT DRESSES(COTTON)



mujhe bohot kharab laga aur mujhe iska jawab dena unko.mujhe esa laga ki woh log mujhe insult kiya ..

And the most shocking is My husband remains mum infront of his parents.
DUnno how to handle it
help me friends

Come on take a chill pill girl, some of us won't even get one hanky.

so don't spoil ur mood on ur 1st anniversary days...enjoy with ur husband.

Skavi

What's so shocking about it? I honestly dont get it.....Anniversaries are for you and your DH - why do ILs have to give you anything at all?

Vanathi.

hi nabanitapain,

i think u are lucky enough to recieve gift from ur in-laws with out forgetting your marriage anniversery. try to look in +ve side.may b your in-law loved to see u in that dress..

ofcourse u may except more from them its not at all a fault but aslo try to understand thier situations(financial status /may b they are eager to see u in that dress)..


plz guys dont criticise our in-laws coz they gave birth n life to our lovely hubbies and they are the one who expects us to be on heights

ofcourse there may be some probs.... but think that it was all bcoz of generation gap that's it....

Hi,

Dont feel bad about it. May be they dont have any practice of giving costly gifts in their family. Even in my case, my parents family will give costly gifts in birthdays or anniversaries, but in my inlaws family they wont give any gift on such occasions except blessings. It all depends on their way of practice and living, so dont take it to heart and be happy.

Paru.

I agree with Kavi and Vanathi..

There are people out there, who don't care if you celebrate your anniversary or not and even worse make it not happen for many DIL's. May be you are blessed to have a lovely In laws to think and gift you something.

Also, this is something for you to celebrate romantically with your hubby. why worry what others gift you - yes in this - only u and ur hubby should matter - everyone else are - OTHERS

Congrats !! and enjoy your anniversary !!!

Take a chill pill my dear! And consider urself lucky too! There are quite a few out here, who receive nothing! And moreover, I've always believed that its not the gift that matters, its the thought, no matter how small or big it is!

Hi

I dont know why we always associate gifts with something very expensive like dresses or jewellery.

For my first birthday after wedding, my husband was in US on deputation and I was in India...You know what my MIL did..

She did not buy any dress or gift.. INstead she had arranged a suprise web chat at a nearby internet center, spoken to my hubby and asked to take off on that day.. and when I came back from office .. she took me to that browsing center.. I was so surprised and overwhelmed by this idea.. I spoke to my hubby for one hour and was also able to see him through webcam...

Now do you think a dress or jewellery would have made me more happy...?

As Ank rightly said it is the thought that matters..

Dont worry about these small things and enjoy your anniversary..First marriage anniversary is really special.. dont spoil that by worrying about these trivial things..

Congrats..!

To VLR

wow hats off to ut MIL . so nice of her. May God bless her

Skavi

Hi.....


I am shocked to read your post too. Bhut bura hua tumhare saath.

A healthy relationship is not about gifts only, its about the sentiments and respect.

Wondering who is most lucky in this relationship now.

Regards