Inlaws trouble- plz help

Girl, in many homes they don't care if the DIL is working, has time or not they expect her to cook, clean and do everything perfectly, consider yourself lucky that you dony have to struggle everyday.

If you really want to make something, just tell them you are making a particular dish that day, let them make the rest. It is your house too, you dont need their permission.If your husband likes that you cook, just go ahead and do it when he's there, if you want to cook during weekends, just do it, why think so much ? If they say something, just say you love to cook, don't want to stop that.

 

Your DH is lucky that he married a girl who likes to cook
There are some who dont like to cook, and then its a different issue.
Just go ahead and cook whenever you want on the weekend, its your kitchen as well. No need to think its not our kitchen, once we move in as DIL, its our place too, we should recognize that.

 

Go for Option 1, and enjoy their cooking, just once in a while, formally ask if they need your help. If you want to cook some dish just say so, "You have been working so hard, today I want to make something for you all".

When you are at SIL's, be her guest, no need to enter her kitchen, just ask what you need.

 

You have a set of MIL-SIL who love to cook for themselves &you...............Wow! better not to complain about a gift horse.:coffeeRelax and enjoy thier service .If you want to try a recipe go ahead when you get time(do your own purchases for ingredients).

You could learn some of your dhs favorites from his mom.Use this opportunity to gel up with MIL .........nothing pleases a MIL (&dh) more than the DIL requesting her to teach her recipes(it still works for me).

Yeah agreed its irritating to have that SILs family daily.But its not going to be easy dealing with your lonely MIL with your dhs absence.So feel lucky to have your SIL to dilute your MILs attention.And again when your dh returns ,dont be fool enough to take whole control of the kitchen.Just learn the art to do the occasional special recipes and be in lime light.

 

Its not about cooking its much more about controlling your own house and life.
My mil and sil did same to me.They ran the show and then go telling everyone behind my back that i am lazy ,irresponsible.I dont do anything.

Take the control.But be prepare for hard work if they start no co operation movement against you.

1 wake up before mil and enter kitchen.Plan menu previous night and exquisite it in minimal time.
2 if she says something tell her you need rest.If sil says something tell her you have to take care of your own home why do you extra work here also.Go sit in hall i will prepare for you.
3 make mil is busy.Figure out what she likes.Mention her relatives to call her at their home for change.If relatives are not interested send her to trips with FIL.