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  1. May 19, 2015 #1
    anuraram1234

    anuraram1234 New IL'ite

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    Ladies,

    In my husbands what's up family group.His Brother's daughters posted this comment.
    take care of your parents."Pal kuditha mirugalgal avap pothu vandhu pokum idam. 1 like 1 share pannu".There was picture with old ladies sitting alone.

    she is 11 year's old and her dad teaches all these thing to her to take care of them and talk all about it to her.

    I dont respond to this type message,but eventually i replied "tell this to you dad".
    I left the grp several times before and they added up me again.does not matter ,the message made my mind to reply.

    my husband and his brother created a big issue for this and torchring daily.

    My times even his cusins have talked immaturly and i never replied to those.

    But there is a limit to talk funny things.His brother teaches his daughter to say things.This one i am not sure she did or her dad teach this.but they should have repplied sorry to this message.Inspite of that he literaly asked my husband to keep your wife in such a place that she will not do this.

    Just for the mistake from their end ,they torcher me.
    how to handle this
     
    anuraram1234, May 19, 2015
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  2. May 19, 2015 #2
    1Sandhya

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    what did the message say? in English please?
     
    1Sandhya, May 19, 2015
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  3. May 20, 2015 #3
    VanithaSudhir

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    What nonsense ? Why is your BIL poisoning such a young kid. First of all why is a 11yr kid in whatsapp group and that too in an adult's family group.

    What is your Husband and BIL now torching you about ? How did they want you to react ? Like and Share it... ???


    @1Sandhya.. Translation 'Visited every now and then by animals that drank milk from them.)
     
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  4. May 20, 2015 #4
    Rihana

    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    :rotfl

    Nice reply.

    What to do? Just leave the group again.

    Can they add you without you approving? I mean really approving in whatsapp by pressing OK or something, not just 'approving'.

    Next time, give a reply like:
    What about those who were fed formula? :)
     
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  5. May 20, 2015 #5
    VanithaSudhir

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    ha ha haa.

    I would have replied 'What are the names of these animals?'..

    Reminds me of my DD.. when I was trying to explain her Darwin's Theory of Evolution .. I told her human beings came from animals.. Monkey.. apes.. She gave a confusing look and asked.. 'What you came from a Monkey's tummy ?'.. :).. It is like that..!!!
     
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  6. May 20, 2015 #6
    anuraram1234

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    "you animals,Drink milk from your mom ,but never get back to see them and leave them alone.1 like 1 share "

    With picture,moms sitting alone

    This is what the message say.

    What's up adding people,they dont need approval
     
    anuraram1234, May 20, 2015
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    VanithaSudhir

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    Anu,

    Tell your DH .. that first of all it is inappropriate for a small girl to be in what's app group. And tell your BIL you know your place and ask him to mind his place.

    Or best. .Laugh..loudly and Ignore them ! :)
     
    VanithaSudhir, May 20, 2015
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    VanithaSudhir

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    You can however block them. They can't add you anymore.
     
    VanithaSudhir, May 20, 2015
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  9. May 20, 2015 #9
    Jazmine83

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    OP,

    So...you replied to the 11 yr old.."tell this to your dad". Seriously?

    You put down her dad...why would you do that to a kid?
     
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  10. May 20, 2015 #10
    anuraram1234

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    some how ,i did not think about it and the message made me to reply this way.
    Is 11 year old still kid to talk like this
     
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