IL's behaviour, need peace of mind...

Hi Friends, came for one more suggestion. Not having peace of mind.
As I mentioned In my other post, MIL caused so much of pain for me in pre and post-delivery.
Both my MIL and SIL are so cunning in nature, PFB scenario:
After DS born, when my MIL asked to send me to their home, my mom told, she will send me at 5[SUP]th[/SUP] month as per custom and more over DS got hospitalized at 11[SUP]th[/SUP] day itself due to fever and now he is recovered. But MIL demanded to send me at 3[SUP]rd[/SUP] month itself. So mom accepted, and my SIL and her uncle came and took me to MIL place.
On the third day, we went to hospital for his 3[SUP]rd[/SUP] month vaccine, as he had little bit cold and cough, doctor gave some medicine and told once those were cured, he will give vaccine. But due to those medicine reaction, DS got vomits and very high fever on the same day night. I gave him fever medicine, but it didn’t control.
Next day, I asked Mil to go to hospital. But she told we will go to the yesterday’s doctor only. But I scared and requested (literally begged) her to go the to pediatrician (it takes only 1 hr from my MIL place) to whom we were visiting since his birth. But she didn’t listen and told “Friday I shouldn’t step out with new born baby”, so at last I lost my patience and I told her “ if anything happened to my son, you have to bear the responsibility” as I don’t have any other option, DS is already running 103 temp and not even opening his eyes.
So finally after lot of drama, we went to hospital and DS got admitted into hospital and MIL went back. I and my mom were at hospital and Ds who just completed 2 months was in lot of pain, and at hospital, they took his blood and water from bone marrow for various tests without Anastasia and we were cried a lot, and I felt like dyeing by listening his cry. At that time SIL called and she told “without listening to our words, you stepped out on Friday, that’s y DS is suffering like that”, I got very angry and I told” my mom told that she will send us in 5[SUP]th[/SUP] month, but u people didn’t listen and due to water change he got infected, at this time also you people are speaking like this, finally my DS is baring pain right”, for this she told” who asked you to come? As you were insisting my bro only, we taken u to my home”.
This is just for an example.
Recently SIL got married, they mentioned wrong DOB (2 years less than actual DOB, as she is aging and this is a good proposal and we gave 20L dowry) to groom family, and her ILs are very good people(may be I am feeling jealous comparing them to my ILs). My MIL and SIL are acting so nice and like very good persons with them which is not true even a %.
By looking their action with SIL’s ILs, am feeling very bad for cheating them and getting thought to reveal their true nature to them (I know it’s wrong, I won’t do also) But this thought is stealing my peace of mind, please advise me, I am becoming cruel here for myself.

 

Hi Saya, thank you for your reply. I was on ML at that time, and husband is working at Bangalore.
Yes, she married last year. Actually they registered wrong DOB at school, as she was not sent to school at the right age(which helped her now). When they start looking proposals, they mentioned right DOB at first, as years passed and marriage getting delay, they increased her DOB each year(For eg: in 2010 mentioned her DOB as 87. later in 2012, mentioned as 88, and in 2014 as 89).

 

Thank you SGBV for your reply. Actually, my H acted as momma's boy and forced me to go to IL's home, in the pretext of his mom wants to stay with her Grand son for few days.(But, he forgot/ignore the truth that, same grand mother asked me to abort my child, when I informed her my pregnancy)