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Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by anuraram1234, Mar 26, 2015.

  1. anuraram1234

    anuraram1234 New IL'ite

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    Hi Ladies,

    Yesterday my DAD left to india.my son was saying "Is he going cry for travelling alone".i put this message what up grp.my hub replied "all thatha waste idiot".
    my sis saw that and got angry and she already started fighting with me how can he say that to dad.
    I am feeling frustrated and he used bad words.
     
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  2. laksub

    laksub Bronze IL'ite

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    It was wrong on your dh to say that in a family group or anywhere else about your dad even if he meant it as a joke..it is so disrespectful....naturally they will get offended. Wonder what your dad will think when he comes to know. Ask your dh to apologise before this becomes a big issue.
     
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    ars Platinum IL'ite

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    Wow Your sis is right how can he.
    Your h should learn to give respect and take respect.
    Hope your son tells him my dad waste idiot. I am fuming. sorry can't give you any suggestions.
    Why is your sis fighting with you. She should ask your h
     
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    VanithaSudhir Platinum IL'ite

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    Your DH should 'apologize'... Not right !! Setting wrong example for your kid.
     
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    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    That's a very mean thing to say about your dad. I would have been angry too.
     
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    hrastro Platinum IL'ite

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    Maybe he meant something else and it got autocorrected !! Whatsapp mistake - did you ask about it to your husband ?? Did he apologise ?
     
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    anuraram1234 New IL'ite

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    This hurts me a lot than my sis.He did not realize that he sent to group.he felt sorry.But not willing to appologize to my family.He says i also hurted his mom.But i never used bad words,although i had usual quarrels.

    But what ever it is ,he needs to stop saying bad about my family.We are not begger family
     
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    hrastro Platinum IL'ite

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    Oh come on - just like he put the stupid message to the group, he can also post a sorry to the group

    And later call your dad and say sorry dad, it was a mistake!
     
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    Rise Platinum IL'ite

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    Now this is when you say --"oops sorry auto corrrect mistake" ---- if hus has a prob with fil keep it to himself not in family group... Bad mouthing should be dealt with in the beginning. Let him know you are not going to toleralte it, else its going to be a habit.
     
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    MalStrom IL Hall of Fame

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    What would your husband's reaction be if you wrote such a comment about your FIL? Ask him to apologize and behave more maturely while commenting in public. This is a bad example for your son too.
     
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