Good Quality/habit of ILs

Me1 · Nov 5, 2014

Hey all pretty ladies,

We have been pouring our concerns and getting cool answers regarding our issues with ILs. Enough of negativity surrendersmiley I believe we must have learnt atleast one good quality/habit that they possess. After all, every one has some good in them.

Also, if possible and situation allows don't forget to praise her/him for this and share your experiences of praising. Praising is an art which can not be mastered easily. Once mastered you will find yourself in much peace.

Let's start mentioning one such thing in this thread..

Me1 · Nov 5, 2014

My turn first :hatsoff

Quality: my MIL's praising capability
Incidence : She praised me of cooking good food when I was damn tired.
Result: I instantly started shining
I praised : When I praised her , she said saying some good words to anyone just brings a smile on ones face.

Kisi ko jara ki khushi mil jae to hamara kya jata h

aashuabhi · Nov 5, 2014

My MIL is quite open minded. I can wear dresses, nighty in front of her. She never minds and also she never interferes between me and my husband.

memeera1234 · Nov 5, 2014

One thing that I like about my MIL is she is very practical. When my DH had health issues some 3-4 yrs back, he felt very homesick and was planning to leave job and settle at native ( which is a village). I tried to console him but in vain. When he shared this with his mother, she said only one thing " like any mother, I also want my son to be with me but what will you do of your life coming here.. here you wont get a well earning job like one you have today.. how do you plan to spend rest of your life.. issues come and go.. but dont breakdown.. you both live happily at your workplace..life is not as rosy over here as you think ". I really saluted her in my heart for her practical approach.

Me1 · Nov 5, 2014

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I really saluted her in my heart for her practical approach.
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Mine is very practical too.. Sons listen to mumma's better :rotfl

umasivasankar · Nov 5, 2014

my mil is also very practical,she never interfere in h&w issues,whatever it is she cook n keep it in dine on time 8am,12pm,7pm.i like her time managenent

umasivasankar · Nov 5, 2014

great me1,have been viewing only negative thread abt mil ,this is the first thread am viewing abt the positive side of mil
thank u

Me1 · Nov 5, 2014

umasivasankar said: ↑

whatever it is she cook n keep it in dine on time 8am,12pm,7pm.i like her time managenent
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Can you please share how she manages time. I would like to learn few tips

umasivasankar · Nov 5, 2014

she wake up 5.30am n put kolam(sometimes i put)wash leftover vessels
6am she put coffee n watch slogas ,sweep n all other things
7am she start making bf
8am bf on table(taste itself wont change,same taste ever)
9am again wash the vessel n have some rest
10.30am she get ready to cook for lunch
12pm lunch ll b on table(same taste)(i love her cooking)
1.30pm she go for a nap
4pm she wakeup n clean d vessel ,make coffee,grind flour for idli
5.30 pm she go to terrace n we talk for sometime
6pm she lit deepam n chant some slogas
7pm-dinner on table
9pm-goes to bed
this is her daily routine (i have been watching since 2006)no changes yet n she ll not try different recipe in cooking she cook ly traditional recipes but it tastes yummy)