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Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by Anamika99, Aug 26, 2014.

  1. Anamika99

    Anamika99 Gold IL'ite

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    my MIL and i were just chatting and she said"i was telling ur Dad (my FIL) that she wanted to be here for xmas and hence wanted to come late to US. Now I have to leave even before thx giving" she added "so ur Dad (my FIL) replied ...anyways we should be coming now every 2 months..."

    didn't dare clarify it what it means by that but i believe it meant just go to India for two months and come back again....whaatsmiley

    why would they even think like that? Don;t they know twice a year tix to USA is so expensive and

    OMG, i wil get only 2monts break from them instead of 6 months...o god o god..please donot let ths happen, :drowning:bang:notthatway: notdonesmiley
     
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    rainbowresh Gold IL'ite

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    Hope you enjoy some "Me" time in the two months... ! Take time to pamper yourself ...
    All the best!!
     
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    Anamika99 Gold IL'ite

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    ut 2 months not enough..it just flies :(
     
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    padmaja909 Platinum IL'ite

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    it may not happen. dont worry.
     
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    thx...hope u r right
     
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    padmaja909 Platinum IL'ite

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    cross that bridge when you come to it. once you know definitely you can plan accordingly.
     
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    Weasly Gold IL'ite

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    Has this been okayed by ur husband?! :drool
    I feel for u dear!!
     
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    Anamika99 Gold IL'ite

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    i know but it scares the hello out of me
     
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    I have no idea....and i rather not open this topic with my hubby...or them...for such things i just listen and say "hmmm" - i do not want to give any feelings out true or wrong ones...

    Will he apprve...if they say they want to do so, he won't be able to say n who knows they have already discussed it...
     
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    They are parents of your H. I dont think you can ask your H to "ask them to visit less". You do what you have to do to set reasonable expectations during the visits.
     

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