Who is important mother or wife??

Every wife is a mother some day and every mother was a wife, so its not the male community alone who needs to differentiate and know the value, its also every female who are wives today should know that they are part of the male who in future must respect their wife as well as care for the mother. Completely a wife is not the most important in a man's life, its 95percent wife and 5percent mother means we need that 55 to get a score of 100, so mother is indispensable.

So its better that as we bring up the child we must teach him to respect woman at all stages in life, so that when wife enters she gets what she deserves. Yesterday wife, today's mother and tomorrow its mil, so its women who must teach a child. Male community should be taught and there is nothing to be cherished in telling he is momma boy, as its again women who is behind this saying.

Women is important in man's life, she must make him understand the stages of live, new relations instead of debating wife or mother as both are we women community.

 

Everything in the nature is two

1. Sun - Moon
2. Hot - Cold
3. Birth - Death
Like so on you can say both these are important in our life.

Our first phase of life should be important to Mother Second phase we have to give important to our wife.

Which is first phase ? which is second Phase ?

1. When a mother falling in sick or need help from that day to death bed this is the first phase for a man the same when it happens to wife that could be the second phase for a man.

you can observe some gap between the

Sun and Moon - Air space;
Summer and Rainey - winter season
Hot & Cold - Warm

these in between phase is a man's life that is from Teen age to until our kids reach Teen.

Every's life is divided into 4 parts

1st part - Growing - Physical and mental.
2nd part - Happy Freedom life - our teen age - to Kids teen age.
3.rd Part - responsibility. - Guide our kids and care on Parents.
4th Part - peaceful and calm life with wife ( here only we can realize the real love and affection ) and prepare our mind to leave the earth.

 

none of our fingers are same no can't live saturated fulfill life in earth for living thing has some ups and downs.

many example of Bad mother and Good wife is also in this earth.

It all depend on the situation and circumstance in which we are grown. It is not compulsory we should follow Gandhi some time we have to be act as Osama.

 

Again the answer for your question is elders (male and female), elders parents might not have taught them to respect wife, not to ill treat or hurt her. Mother sentiment is part of our society, also that old mother will feel happy when she is praised in a crowd but forgets that she is getting all praises by stamping her own dil and son. Seeing these drams one day this dil also does the same when her son grows up. So the cycle goes. We must grow up, Good wives need no appreciation as their work would speak, jobless needs to be praised always as they are jobless so atleast they get this. So fault is only in upbringing of a mother and this society, nobody to blame more than these people.
Never compare as mother and wife both are different segments of live never ever the same. Realize that his mother can only be a mother till death but only a wife can be a mother as well as a wife. Always a wife is superior in a man's life, so ignore or never bother for silly comments.

Unlike commented in a rajini film, is one or two bigger,
one is the mother
Two is the wife

Two is always bigger than one, so be happy to be no.2 in a man;s life.:cool2:

 

No we should not ask like that everyone who come across in our life is Important for us. The right hand is flexible and doing all jobs and the left hand is not handy and doing necessary cleaning jobs, will you cut your left hand because it is not flexible and handy ?

We need both and everything is important in our life.

 

Yes :exactly:, Male and female are important be it father, mother brother wife or husband. merely humans...

 

Include "FRIEND" in the list before human.

Be Human and be with Humanity. ( whole world is lacking in this part )

 

hehe.. and the wife waits for the son to get married so that he can appreciate his mom compensating for all the appreciations she were deprived of by her own husband who was busy appreciating his own mother!