our destiny is written by who?

DEAR MALSPIE,
I donot want to offend u.I request u to plz let us know how u are benifitted by
praying god, how u have prayed ,and which god u have prayed and in which manner
u have prayed etc.In apublic forum only u can express ur experiences.If u want to say anything u can said by a P.M to me or u can send by e-mail to me. on demend I can
supply my e-mail address.plz donot take it as personal.Do u think that i am perfect
and authoritative about these things.I am also a science student. I too have many
doubts in this subject.But how to clariify them only in these public forums only we can clarify.
Sd/nischel

Dear Nischeal,

Thanks for clarifying the issue. Now that things are ironed out lets discuss in simple ways.
How do I pray?
At the outset, we need to have complete faith in the Lord. There should be no doubts in our mind. As human mind is good at wandering to many levels, it is natural to have doubts. But, we should not let these doubts set roots in our heart. Place the petition, in the hands of the lord, at times you must have noted that it did not work. It does not mean that God did not try, it only means he felt what you are asking is not what he wants me to have. In the long run, you will realize that he did not give bless me with "IT", thank God, it was not worth it. Prayers are like rituals. Sometimes he answers you in the form of your inner voice. Listen to your inner voice, it can be the voice of God. Sometimes, he sends a friend or a messiah to help you out. May be he has come in disguise. Pray honestly, pray sincerely, pray with all your heart. You will get it. And if you do not, it was not worth it. God has taken away many things from me, he has given many more things for me. Dear Nicheal, my life revolves in my trust in HIM. Whenever I am in deep distress, he has jumped all fences for me. He has helped me. I believe in him. When I cry, he wipes my tears. But, we need to approach him. We are all born with our own fate. He has destined it for us depending on our previous "KARMA" or 'DEEDS". We may get good parents, but bad siblings. We may have all riches but dependent co brothers and sisters forever. We may have power and money but ailment to follow forever. Its all our karma that is not letting us enjoy the benefits of life. For people who have everything and who do not offer food for beggars, who do not give away things for the orphans or help people in the orphanage, remember is is watching. They are born with the best coz of their past deeds, now he is watching what they are doing with it. He will take them to the correct path, may be in next birth. There is justice in his world. Dear Nicheal, I do not fear god. He is my friend, i speak to him like my best buddy. I am shameless in front of him. I admit my weakness when he is around and ask him to help me to build my strength. He has done so. Once he blesses you, learn to respect his blessings. Treasure all that he has given to you, he will be happy. I can go on... you may get bored..

DEAR MALSPIE,
Than Q very much for taking pains to explain in detail about the subject.In this
connection i request u to let me know clearly about the method of prayer and the name of the God whom we have to pray, by whom we will be benifited
u are an astrologist or pamist or numerorologist ? what type of data u require
to forecast the future events of an individual.?
Sd/nischel

I am an astrologer, vastu consutant as well as numerologist.

I require place of birth, time of birth, date of birth of course for detail studying.

I will send you by PM other details.