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Dear Respected devotees,
Please suggest pujas and prayers , here is my situation.
Administrator, i have posted the situation here again because devotees can understand my whole situation and give me there valuable prayers and pujas to get a job for my husband.
I have posted in me and my spouse as i am in mental depression looking for ILS replies and how to handle the situation. Please i request not to delete the same.
I am regular reader of the IL. I feel depressed and sad all the time how hard i try to console my self still i feel the same.
Here is my situation my DH has lost his job, he has done his best in the company and has good name, but due to some politics from some people in his company he lost his job. He spoke to his manager asking them a reason and a chance and asking where was his wrong. But the company has said it is final decision.But his job is not lost due to the finance problems or recession. His lead who is the indian played the game to remove my DH. That lead acted too smart and very clever and wicked and was acting as nothing happened. But we came to know about that guy only after my DH lost his job (it was just 8months in his new job).
My DH never hurts anyone he is such a nice person and soft person. i told my dh to teach that person a nice lesson or give me a chance for me to speak to that person but my DH says if god is there he will punish , my dh never thinks bad about that guy even after he has done like this to my husband's career, such a kindhearted my hub is.My DH lossing this job almost 8 weeks gone.
we also thught to appeal we had a discussion that company and the lead will win and we will be losing(all this discussion have been done).
i won't be sad and depressed if this is the first time and only time. This has happened to him four times lossing the jobs, Like going to a job and losing job in 4months. I spoke to my husband to find out if there were any faults from his side, but latter found out that company (some person)is playing politics and because he is doing well in his career , they don't want to see my husband growing and they terminated him.(previous jobs same situation).
But in the first job the situation is he lost the job due to the company expected more and more skills. But the other jobs some politics have been played by his lead which is not known at all as he was doing well (as you know in the foreign countries we can't know what is going on in the company but in indian companies something canbe seen).
I have been doing all kinds of prayers. but i don't know why god is still testing us.
I am very worried and depressed because of this situation and as you know in this country the cost of living is very high and seeing the present market. Also i have seen people who don't do well they are taken in jobs ans people who cheat they are in good careers.
I am not saying anything great of my DH, but in his life he has helped so many people and given life to people and his attitude is very good as a person he is excellent. I don't understand why it is happening to him , please help me to come out of the situation and i need your valuable suggestions and advice.
I can't express this situation to my parents or his parents .
I am working but mine is temporary. Friends after coming to the country he was without job total together nearly twenty two months.
Did anyone face a situation like this how do you handle this kind of situation in life.
Please do reply friends with your valuable prayers and pujas.
Thnaks in advance for the replies.