we always say oh she is jealous,they are jealous etc etc but how will u simplify the term jealousy well u dont feel jealousy towards birla tata or ambani but when ur good neighbour radha or seetha buy a bmw or benz,u frown and start discussing it with ur very good friends-thats called jealousy so i feel jealousy is connected with familiarity....................... do u agree????????
I dont know..whether its familiarity or anything else... One thing is for sure.. there is saying.. "if someone is jealous about you, Be happy since it means you are one step ahead of them". But what I feel is.. if someone is jealous about us ok... What if I am jealous about someone... for small small things.. I feel jealousy.. Jealousy destroys one... IF we read any articles..it says only.. dont be worried that anyone else is jealously with you... I am worrying.. why do I feel jealousy.. I dont want to be jealous..
i believe its all familiarity................ like unnecessary familiarity breeds contempt,unnecessary familiarity breeds jealuosy also i think! small spots of jealousy is ok(at least u can wash it away from ur mind) ,but omg there r people who r green with envy.......... i'm scared of them! there r people u cant avoid and u cant share happiness with them coz they r simply-...........
being Nirmama-without feeling of mineness when u think abt attachment -jealousy is a by product thats why i think some great people advice us to be like children. do any feeling affect them more than a couple of minutes??????????
