I am pregnant but not ready for it...please help

My answer would be blunt, but i have to say this. U killed 2 lives already! Why would u hesitate abt god' s punishment? Go on and kill once more. I knw u would have done tht long before if its as simple as flushing the toilet. U still think abt the pain u ve faced. Wht abt tht unfortunate tiny life? Dont u think its having pain while u cut it to pieces?
any ways am 100% sure u r going for abortion again. Why do u want acknowledgement for the decision u already made?

 

your 5th pointer is a very high probability.you can check the possibilty of bringing your parents and helping you during pregnancy and after child is born.

 

Please refrain from using such words as "Dont u think its having pain while u cut it to pieces?". Abortion is a person's choice and no one can judge a person for that. It is a different debate and if you want to start that thread, read the guidelines of IL and go ahead.

 

OP,

I think 3,5 are most important. Being young does not matter sometimes as long as you are prepared for a baby. Even though it is your body a husband has morally rights to contribute to that decision of abortion. Please do discuss it with him - all your fears and reasons. Consult a doctor for your point 5 to get a clear understanding.

 

I think 3rd and 5th points are valid. 3 MTPs in quick succession is not good for your health and future chances of getting pregnant. This type of health issue is long lasting. I suggest if there is even a small chance of keeping it go ahead with pregnancy. Rest of course depends on what you and your husband mutually decide.

 

Dear op,

I have never replied to anyone like this but this time I couldn't stop myself .
i seriously don't know why God is giving a Precious treasure to someone who don't know the value of it .
Please take few hours from your very busy schedule and go through the Fertility and trying to conceive forum and then make your own decision .

I am so sorry if I have hurted you but to be frank all your points were just escapism (JMO).

 

Your 5th point is highly probable. Why don't you for once, think on the lines of keeping the baby and finding out ways to handle situation? 22 is not too young to have a baby... There may be better ways to deal with things than abortion...

 

Sonia,
Please don't do abortion again as it may affect you physically as well as mentally. Getting pregnant is gift of god and you didn't accept it for two times and again you got pregnant and accept this gift as we all know it is very precious. Many people are under TTC and please go through that thread.
As lucky waves suggested, please try to bring your parents or PIL to take care of you during pregnancy. Hope you will take good decision this time.