Help!!!Pray for me

Hi,

I am going through a very bad phase where my DH is now in the custody of my inlaws in Mysore and doesn't respond to me. I have 3 yr old daughter and I am independent. But I cannot take separation for the sake of my daughter. So pls. pray for me. I need your help. Now my neighbours have been helping me and are kind to me. Since my parents are in kochi(setlled there) my daughter since i have no support in Bangalore is with my parents after My inlaws denied their support from 7th jul 2008. But I donot want separation with my hus.I don't know why he is listening to them and not taking my words to heed. Pls pray for me.

Regards,
Anitha

I pray for U.I can understand the kind of Tug of War,U r going through.I only wish U come out of this hanging state and Ur Husband takes the responsibility of understanding U.God Bless.

Thanks Neya. after 6 yrs of marraige also I am facing this problem, after my daughter's birth she was takn care whole and soul by my parents. They have not even asked my hus for expenditure on my daughter since they take it as their gran child. All the while they supported when he did not have any job and all that. My Pa has only got the 1st job for him in microland in September 2003. All this done for a senseless man. never did he realise how much we all loved him. I can't beleive he is so selfish and self centered. But Break up will affect my dear daughter. Oh I don't know whether to bow down or to hold my head high and refuse to accept this behaviour. All this happened yesterday. he works in Pune and I called him to visit me as I was not at all secure and feeling low and cold and stomach pain. till then I was on my own. No interupptions from pa, ma, neighbours and brave enough to handle my problems, but he came with his parents from mysore, did not even enter the house and called up my neighbours and spoke to me on the email i sent day before yesterday. My neighbours sensed the cunnigness of muy inlaws and supported me. They say have self respect and wait, if he wills he will come back. But I am feeling Miserable every minute. With all the boldness i changed my mobile number. Only communication is email, today. pls help!!

Only this year June 13th did my inlaws accept to help since he is in pune and I had to work from July 1st.(I had dicontinued work from March till June for my daughter's health) Then they denied any support and walked out in the night on 9th July, blaming me but not openly clearing the misunderstandings. they have a good social circle in Mysore and are members in ramakrishnashrama. In this 3 wks whenever thay have asked money I had given liberally and broght gifts for MIL (remember i am only going to get my Sal in jul). And they kept half the amount next to the Tv in the hall and walked out. this is because i had open communication with him on their mis understandings and i was explaining everything as to why i can't leave daughter in day care for her health reasons.
Moreover his job is at stake. he is still not confirmed. New Job, Confirmation pending in november(1 yr probation). Where as I am confirmed and have good boss. I have to pour out my feelings. my parents feel miserable after this kind of behaviour from him and in laws. I am in need of peace. Please help me. I don't know ehen I will break down. please advice and help.

Hi ani 78
Hope these wishes, Will fill your life,With pleasant things.
Dont worry it is during these difficult times you must trust God, he will definately save you.I wish you all the best to join your husband and lead v.happy married life. All the best for your daughters future as well .Take care and remember that God is with you every minute watching you, he is aware of all happenings, he does help in his own ways be patient and pray him.
Bye
take care.

I will pray for u, all ur problems will be over very soon, don't worry...

Skavi

ani78

This is really terrible news....when men behave like this it feels so nasty and instead of they being strong and supporting their wife and children they act as if they are babies and run to their mom and dad leaving their own responsibility to some one else.....have faith on god and am sure these will be fixed soon....but one point please be brave and stand up for yourself and your kid....dont think that you are getting separated etc...but first of all support yourself and your daughter (financially and emotionally) which would give you the required confidence...if you have faith and confidence on yourself...everything will fall into place automatically....be bold and be brave...

Pray to Lord parvathi or Durga or shakti or Kaali maa...am sure she will listen to your prayers and fix all this situation .all our prayers are with you....god bless

Dear Ani78,

My heart goes to you and your little Daughter.

Dont worry, just hang on....God is with you.

Prayers from me too...
Poornima.

Dear,

Dont lose the hope and faith in Him. Have courage and face the world.

I am praying for you ... Don't worry. Take care of your daughter.

Ani,
Have hope, faith in Him...all our prayers are with you...

sriniketan

Thanks all. Today is Guru poornima. I am praying at least by today I will be able to settle down. Yesterday I had sent a mail to my Hus explaining how miserable it was when had come home with the gang of people to pull me down.I sensed he had read the mail. We know each others mail passwords and saw that as read mail. I wish things will turn good and fruitful.