Help!!!Pray for me

ani78

wish you good luck....may god bless your marriage and family...take care stay positive and keep hope..and faith..

I am praying for you and your child. god bless you .

Hi all,
Thanks for your prayers. However my husband has not replied mails or called me. I am really wondering if God is testing me. I feel really miserable when the man who is supposed to understand and support me is doing this. I have totally no suppport and I feel I may break down. In his company he has lied that his child is not well and so he is at home.I don't know what to do next.

Pls advice.
Thanks for support from all of you.

ani78

if you dont mind could you please post your problem the past present and what happened etc in the marriage, spouse and inlaws section so that our IL friends can give some support and help you calm down...and suggest some good points to fix all this...good luck and keep hope...

I couldnt stop thinking about your problem....suddenly I remembered a very important thing....if possible try to read sundarakanda...the storyabout how hanumanjee meets sita in ashoka vanam of lanka and how he tells about her being safe to sri rama.....(as till that time sri rama doesnt know whether sita was alive or where is she etc..) so they say who ever reads this sundarakanda....they will be united with their husbands / wives and will lead a happy life.....try to do it atleast once in a day takes about 1 hour..let me know if you speak telugu so that i can send the telugu version..if not in the puja / sloka section you will also find the english or hindi version....god bless you and am sure god is watching all of us and will help us all out of our problems..

Many Thanks Saahithya, I will read Sundarakanda today. I speak konkani. Some how I feel I should escalate my problems only to GOD Almighty, so the posting idea though it occured to me earlier, I chose only to post it here. I am saying all the prayers now. Tomorrow is his birthday. My parents say to keep my calm. And say that if we give in today like we had done when my Father was asked to come Mysore one sudden morning (3rd June 2006), immediately saying that relation ship is critical and insulted my father about my relation with him quoting what ever was discussed between me and husband.It had started on June 1at 2006, when my hus left to mysore all of sudden in anger without informing me. (I was in office that time) Later (5th june 2006) things got sorted out and my hus returned himself and promised never to betray and leave me. The last mail he sent on tuesday 15th jul also reiterates that he wants me. But all of a sudden he turned to his parents Jul 16th and they interfered calling all my neighours (in apartment). Probably because of reserved character they thought I was not understood by my neighbours. But the tables turned on them, Probably he is realising and feeling bad to face me this time. I need him. I want him to return. I have forgiven him for creating this scene. but how does he feel i donot know. In his office he said he will be back on tuesday. he works for Wipro technologies, Pune.
All this while I think only about my dear daughter. I feel happy she is with my mom and dad in the native place, so that she does not see my sadness. I am just keying wahatever comes to mind. Please don't feel bad for a long post. But I am sure there are considerate humans out there and probably God will also read this message.

Dear Anitha ,
I understand your critical position .I 'm so sad for you . You avoid seperation for the sake of your dear daughter - that shows how good you are . Your husband's behaviour is brutal . He is the one to support you throughout your life .I really pity you . But its nice that you realize that eventhough you are economically strong , you do need your life-partner 's ( husband) support for a peaceful life . I pray God that your husband realizes your value & importance & come back to you with his heart full of love & care for you & your daughter. Pray God with high hopes & he will never let you down . You 'll start a happy life soon , Anitha . My strong prayers for you .
Love ,
Indhu.

ani

how are you doing....didnt see your post so wanted to check...hope things are fine at your end...

Anitha,

Dont worry I will pray to Chotanikkarai Bagavathi amman. Bagavathi amman will definetely help you in this situation.

Also if possible please chant "Jai Shri Ram" whenever you find time.

Hi Everybody and Thanks all ILs for praying for me. My belief in God is even more strenghtened. On last Wednesday my husband and I got reunited against the wishes of my MIL . While I was in office I got a call for his uncle (mother's cousin)saying that he has come from Pune and this uncle was trying his best to save us from the chains of my MIL and FIL( FIL who never ever disagrees with my MIL, After being 72 he has lost his thinking, ie what his relatives also said). They called me to a reputed lawyer's office. and they were the cousins of my MIL. However they also knew my MIL In and Out and of her evilness and cunnigness. So I reached Malleshwaram from BTM and till 7:45 there were some clients with him and I couldn't talk. His uncle had said that I should be quite composed so i started reading mags- The week and trying to get some strength. After that the lawyer (also his uncle) asked me just one question - do you want to save the marrige or break it. I said save. then another question : Is your husband Good or bad? i said some times good and sometimes bad. He asked if only Good and bad is there then waht. So I said Ok good. Then He said , I have the status of his daughter and this will not be your defeat. You just beg pardon to your inlaws sincerely and then you can stay with your Husband. He said sayings from Gita and said that good deeds will come back to us.Have faith in God. After that they brought my in laws and husband and asked them if thay want to save or break the marriage. So he too answered to Save and my FIL also said Save. (I really wonder why breaking came as thought , every body told my Husband that for Divorce serious reasons should be there like characterless or things like that, for any silly fight my hus and me can't get separated even if my MIL tried hard saying I was mental and high tempered and did not leave any stone unturned. Thanks God I was working and my office has very good opinion of me.) Then they asked me to sign on the family reunion letter. I have not seen a thing like that earlier.We all had to stay in their house that night and they gave us their room and there I discussed with him. He is depressed and except for his daily needs his mom had brain washed and said that there was no other option other than divorce. So he too was confused.(imagine @34). but God helped. Though they got him resigned from Wipro on Monday under their compulsion, that resignation was not accepted and there was vacancy created since two of his team members also resigned. See the way God created vacancy and he went to Pune yesterday. Today he will start again to work. There are many other things I want to share. I will again write.

On Thursday we went to Sai Baba's temple (My Esta Deav) and there was celebrations going on. Yesterday we went to Banashankari and there also we prayed sincerely. Hope all our prayers are heard and answered.

I also belive in Paramara Bhagavathy, Kochi since I am from that place. And Tuesday(Tue and Fri are important to this Goddess) I had told my Mom to light lamps and offer prayers to Goddess there. So my prayers got answered on Wednesday itself. I am happy and God proved that to me.

Anitha

Anitha

am really really happy to see your post and how everything got resolved.....when problems strike thats when our faith on god starts staggering...but beleive me ...god is always there watching us and protecting us....i wish you a happy married life and take care...and pls try to follow few points listed here in the marriage section to keep yourself strong and standup for yourself and your child..without any misunderstandings in future...good luck.