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| Hi All. .. This is Sujatha here. I am new to tis group and found it very interesting, as it gives me a relief from my worries. I got married in 2006 and was on cloud 9 as I have a great husband who is very understanding, caring and above all very soft at heart. Things were smotth and then I concieved but I did not know that my joys would come to an end , I had a miscarriage during my 3rd month of pregnancy(Jan 2007). I was devastated. I did not expect this at all. I was shaken, but did not show it out as I am not all that expressive person who cries out. I keep my problems to myself. I have been diagnosed with PCOS, but my Dr. said that as long as I have concieved PCOS is not a problem Then, again I concieved in Jan 2008, I was happy again, but kept my emotions to myself as I previously had a bad expirience, I was scared. But still I guess god wanted me to undergo more sufferings and so during my third month of pregnancy when I went for my regular check up, the Dr. told told me that my baby had a chromosomal abnormality. I did not know what to do.. what to say..It was as if the whole world was laughing at me... I felt so low of myslef. One can understand the position when u undergo the problem. Then with a second consultation I confirmed about my baby's abnormality and was told that the baby had an increased NT. Then after a long thinking we decided to abort the child. It was such a bad experience. I guess no one should go through all these hell things... it is sooooo unbearable. I have stopped crying these days. I don't cry about my fate but I laugh at myslef thinking about all the pain that I am going through.......Life has always been very very tough with me.... I lost my father when I was 10-years-old, mother 3 years back(before my mrrg) Though life has been so so bitter to me. I have a lovely sister and brother who take care of me so welllllll. And my loving husband who is so very understanding and tolerates me....and my IN-LAWS who always respect me. Recently, when we had come to chennai last month we underwent genetic counselling and are waiting for the results... It will take a month for the results to be out.... I am now with my fingers crossed and praying daily. I do not know y god plays so much with some ppl's life. I guess he likes to play with them... I am a software proffesional. I was wrkng in CHN before mrrg and quit after mrrg as I wanted to have a family asap. But things never happened the way I thought. Please pray for me and my husband that our test results should be normal and we should have a healthy baby... I plead to one and alll....... |
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| sujatha, WElcome to il. First relax. Will definitely pray for your wishes to come true. BE positive and happy. God will definitely hear all our prayers.
__________________ Love, Shanthi Adopt the pace of nature, her secret is patience(Ralph Emerson) Lullabies; Being Tough; Acharya Devo Bhava Last edited by Shanvy; 15th July 2008 at 01:34 AM. |
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| Hi sujatha Dont worry, God has his own ways of solving the problem all we have to do is wait patiently, I will certainly include you in my prayers, All the best. bye take care |
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| dear sujata, pls do not worry ,u will be include in our prayers,but pls be patient and trust in god and have all the tests to be done and check where is the problem and take medication. cheers, shashi. |
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| Sujatha all of us here will pray for you for the good results and a healthy and happy baby for you both...have hope and faith on god....it never goes in vain...take care and always be positive... |
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| Dear Sujatha, I will add you in my prayers... Have faith in Him..Be calm, don't worry everything !!!
__________________ With Regards... Gowri "Success is Sweet,but it's Secret is Sweat" |
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| Dear shanvy, daffodil, goldenengel, yenetishashi, saahithya, fairymother, she123, gowri66 Thanks a lot for including me in all of your prayers. I hope everything goes fine. Thanks once again. Regards Sujatha |
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