children and **** sites

It can be challenging to discuss and talk freely about sex topic with children. Since the child is exposed to the world of Internet at a very young age, it is difficult to restrict/control them. If not at home, there is wifi access in a lot of other places. I think that there isn't much to do about watching ****. If you notice some pattern about the times like weekends or evenings when the child is watching, try to engage them in some family activity like playing card/board games together.. Playing games releases some hormones which make us become happy and positive. Hopefully it will reduce the urge to watch ****.

 

Just because talking about **** might be a difficult conversation to have with children does not mean that we should avoid it. They are still children, living under our roof and as parents it is our duty to guide them in this matter even if it is difficult for us.
As teenagers they are still in the process of forming their sexual identity and their concept about sex. Viewing **** at that young age can negatively impact their future relationships and it is addictive in nature. There was an article released by the American Psychiatric association sometime ago that talked about how the minds of children/teenagers who view **** gets hardwired a certain way and disrupts normal social development.
You and your husband need to get together and address it with your child. I think its more of effective if both parents talk but if that does not work, atleast have your husband talk to him. There is no need to shame him, but tell him that you know about the **** viewing, ask him what made him access it (curiosity, was it an accident etc). Discuss with him how **** usage can be harmful (there are lots of resources online about how to address it with teens).
Finally set parental controls and filters on all devices. You can take away previleges like phone, iPad etc until he can prove to be trustworthy.
Outside the home or after they move out of your home they may choose to view **** but atleast you would have done what you had to do as a parent.