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In youth we run into difficulties; in old age difficulties run into us.

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  1. iyerviji

    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Respect the old when you are young, help the weak when you are strong, confess the fault when you are wrong...because one day you would be OLD, WEAK, WRONG.



    Today there was a show in Sun TV about old age home. One man does not want to have a daughter and he had a son But in old age he is sent to old age home and visits his son once in a year. Oncewhen he visits and is going back the grand child does not leave him but he had to go. When he goes back his friend in old age is ready with his suitcase. He asks his friend where are you going. He says my daughter has come to take me , so I am going with her . This man then only feels the importance of having a daughter. It was very touching to see the show and everyone acted well

    God has made woman in a special way, they can understand everyone's problems, they have a soft heart.

    India is a place where people worship many female deities by heart. They can’t complete their rituals and worship procedures without worshipping Indian goddesses. Still the male dominant society always yearns for the son child and is keen to kill the female child. Why is so? They need to know the significance of woman. Even woman are now proving the same in various job fields.
    • Woman is God’s best creation because they can just make a home peaceful and lovable

    Themost unfair thing about life is the end. Life is tough.When you are young, you just want to be old but when you become old you wish you were always young, when your old age is not so good as you expected . When we are young we have time and energy but no money, when working we have money and energy butnot time, when old we have time and money but no energy. We should enjoy life and all the things at that moment because we cant have everything all at once.

    Now a days the parents also want space when their children are settled , so they themselves are happy if their sons stay separately. Love between the son and parents is more and they are always in touch and help their parents whenever they need. In present age, many are abroad so parents stay alone only. But they are happy and the love grows more between the couple when they stay alone and share everything. If the wife was a working woman before they are able to do outisde and inside job sharing between each other.

    It is very sad when parents are sent to old age home, to avoid that parents themselves like to go and stay there if they dont have the energy to do all the work and stay alone because in old age home they are comfortable and they need not worry about anything. Now a days old age homes are very comfortable with all the facilities. There is temple and whatever the senior citizens need everything is there.

    Iits really very sad in some houses if there are two sons staying nearby the mother stays with one son and father stays with another sons. I know one or two families where the situation is like this.


    Worrying is like a rocking chair which keeps us busy but gets us nowhere. Most people worry about aging and getting old. Aging is a process and we are destined to grow old. Be aware. Enjoy the process. Use your experience and be grateful ~ For life itself is a blessing So, Just Live your life and Forget your age.
     
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    Dear vijimam,
    as usual, a really touching, thought provoking subject and post from you. As u say, there is no point in worrying over what is to happen in future - but invariably we do get into such moods often. I have found personally that there is no one ideal happy solution. If we have one, we always feel may be a different situation would be better. It would be best if we could follow the quote mentioned.
     
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    @joylokhi dear thanks for your first fb. Glad you liked the post. True dear why worry whatever is going to happen will happen but sometimes we feel sad when we see people going through such tough times . To enjoy happiness it is better to be independent and keep in touch with our children and they are always there whenever needed. Glad you liked the quote , ya we shoud follow that then we can be happy.
     
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