I love my mother

1. Did you not know your mom will oppose this in the "early stage" of your falling in love? Its at that stage you should have thought of this and decided one way or another.

2. Your mom has launched the ultimate weapon, pick him or pick mom. Very tough. But you should have seen this coming. People from orthodox background are very hard to change, so this is time for tough decisions from you. You are the only one who knows what choice is right.

 

How old are you? How long have you been in this relationship .? . Can you postpone wedding thoughts for couple of years which will allow your mom to see seriousness in your relationship and also give more time to the guy to settle down in life and show her that he can take care of you very well an he is there for long haul.

Parents can really be stubborn but if you think he is the right person and also care about parents approval, I would say take it slow and give it time to get approval from her.if anyone brings up your wedding talks tell her and them that you will marry only your guy once she approves and leave it there. With time some realize the seriousness and approve.

stay strong . Do you have any older relatives who she values to talk and explain to her.

 

You are looking at this person's heart rather than outside appearances and you want to spend rest of life with him. You have "chemistry" with this person.

Even your mother see's this person's heart, but she cares about outside opinions. This is normal human tendency.


If I was you, I would talk to God and tell Him what you just told us. When you confide in God, your words and feeling flow more freely than if you even talk with strangers (because there are millions of other things in your life that you cannot explain over the Internet to people you barely know). Of course, God uses strangers to steer you in the right direction.

I have my own struggles and now I talk to God, as if He's right next to me.


God know inside-outside of everything and everyone ..... I talk to God out loud several times a day (of course, do this in private otherwise people think your nuts).

 

Why did you bring up his caste if your mom's problem is only his looks? or is it both?

 

What if you keep on standing at your choice?
If your mom.is loving you also, wouldnt she agree at last?
She may want try force you to bend at her desicion, but if you keep.on telling her , it is love , her heart will not get softer?
Especially, if he is settled well, so you wont have worry about money ?