Re: Are you a only daughter?
I am the only daughter to my parents. My marriage is arranged one. My DH is also only son to his parents. When my inlaws contacted us that our horoscope matches, my first condition or obligation to them is that I will look after my parents after marriage. I will be physical,moral and economical support. They said that is obvious that I should look after them. I felt happy when they reacted like that. Even when me and my DH first met, I also asked him whether he has any objections on my conditions. He said he will support me. I was working before my marriage.
I got married in September, I went to first diwali to my parents place and return back to my ILs place. Immediately after 2 days I got a call that my Dad is admitted in hospital for heart attack. I am completely shattered. I dont know what to do. My mom dont have enough money in hand. Since its few months after my wedding. At that time, my FIL gave me his Debit card and said have it with you and take whatever amount you need for your dad's treatment. My DH took me the same night to my place(Its one night travel from my ILs place). I cant forget that moment in my life.
Now its 6 years after our marriage. Till my inlaws support me. I was working after my wedding for 2 years. Due to some health problems, I resigned my job.While I was working, I used to send money to my parents. When I resigned, I was worried about sending money. Immedietly,my DH said its my duty to send them money. I will send hereafter. Till now he is sending money to them.
You may ask why you are not keeping your parents with you. I am ready to keep them with me. Even my inlaws prefer that. But my parents want to be alone for some time, they said they will join me when they really need my physical support. I am very proud of my ILs and my DH. My ILs and parents are mingling as friends. Now I am away from my ILS due to my DHs job. Even now my parents and ILs have good communication.
My duty to both parents and loving ILs is to take care of them well in their old age. I want to be loving daughter for both family. My parents now have one daughter and a son (my DH).
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