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Discussion in 'Miscellaneous in Parenting' started by anika987, Sep 24, 2014.

  1. anika987

    anika987 IL Hall of Fame

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    One of my cousins daughter back in INdia has put a picture on Facebook.
    Like a maxim photo shoot! I am not lying.
    she wore a bra,shortest of skirt,tummy showing and a sleeveless coverup.
    it was too sexy and revealing.all her friends in fb,esp boys were drooling over her.
    I came to see this photo as she is in my fb and this was her profile pic.


    same with another friends' daughter.she loves posing in shortest of clothes with her friends liking and drooling..

    so many other pics like that.

    I got shocked coz kids in. India seems to be extremely westernized now..
    i feel girls in USA are more conservative..at least the ones I know.
    right or not,puting such pics in a social platform could invite trouble.
    hope they know what they are doing.


    just wanted to share.
     
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    how old is she?
     
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    she is 21

    the other one is 16
     
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    if she is 21, she is old enough to dress as she pleases. for the younger girl, i would mention it to her mom.
     
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    I have seen married women doing it... may be husbands are ok. i donno. But they wouldnt bother on any other peoples post (no commenting, no liking nothing) all they do is post their pics in shorts and wait for comments like.. gorgoues, sexy etc.. talk about wanting attention even after marriage... I do t like judging but sometimes people just beg for it
     
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    Yeah, dresses in India are getting more westernized. I was in mumbai near Mithibai college and was surprised at what girls were wearing. So if they are wearing that outside, posting on facebook may not be a big deal.

    For the 21 year old, it may become an issue if there are talks of her marriage and possible groom looks at the FB posts and profiles. Maybe inform the parents, that's all you can do.
     
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