Hubby shouts bcos of Indus Ladies forum.....

Hi Sunkan,

Nice to see you. Finally saw the face behind all those threads, posts and blogs. Wish to see even your sis.

When i newly joined first few days i couldnt think anything else other then indus. Now i really feel like i got a company, i am not alone and there are so many members sharing their views, experience,.....

Hope you dont get shoutings from your family as i can see you are totally involved full time and i am amazed to see lot of threads and posts in your name everyday. Good that your sis is also here with us.

Thanks Sunkan for everything.

Bala

Originally Posted by sunkan

yes bala,
indus has become a world on it own and an extended family about whom i worry and take part as much as possible it has become a lighthouse in my life now..u r a grt soul want to share what u enjoy with your dear ones, i understand ur feelings..sunkan

You are right. Time flies. I forgot to have my breakfast bcos i just logged in so thought of having later, always will sit with a cup of coffee. Then lunch time came, oh, something interesting to read and comment, lazy to go and cook, had some juice and started again. Its evening time, hubby is going to come from office, i havent done anything except sitting the whole day on the net and reading the threads in IL. So will cook and clean the mess and will close the computer, he will corretly guess that i was full time on Indus and he will get angry when he wants me to watch movie/tv with him, initially i will sleep late telling that there are so many things here to read. Thats when he started feeling jealous, curious and i then i started sending the threads and jokes, but still i couldnt make him to join here.

Bala

Originally Posted by kanaka Raghavan

As Sunkan said IL has become a family.I have so much to share and care .Each day opens out with lot of excitement when I sit in front of the net and time simply passes.I can proudly say my husband's net bill has gone up because of IL..............IL is simply simply wonderfullllllllllllllllll.No words to express my feelings........Thanks Malathy.............

Hi Vidya,

You have your own way of making us laugh. Only on weekends i sit in front of him and read the threads. My hubby also says that "i feel like 100,000 people are behind you and knowing what is happening in our life".

But i feel sorry for him as Neenga romba avaru varitinga "Me, My hubby and excercise", i can understand that he is a jovial person. He should join here and make us laugh more.

Thanks
BALA

Originally Posted by vidyasundar

Dear Bala,

thank you very much for making me to feel happy to see my name in your thread.

coming to your topic, I dont have any problem since i dont use comp when my hubby is around. i just share the interesting posts when we have tea and i used to tell bed time stories or jokes to my hubby b4 sleep. i collect it from IL. my hubby is a very witty person always talk in that way even serious things in humorous way.

just now he left office. I used to adjust his ties b4 he leaves to office i asked him to bend his neck down, kuniya sonnen avar nimirndharu kuniyaradhuna ennanu kuda theriyalanu sonnen adhuku avar ne kuninu sonna keela partha mela partha nu sollala na mela parthu kuninjenu sollittu now u go and post this matter also nu sollitu poraru.

he shouts at me for many things but not bcos of IL so far. i should try to maintain this.

PS:- soon we can expect for pongal patti mandram solomon papaya thalaimayil "pengal adhiga neram selaviduvadhu Tv serialila alladhu indusladies websitila"

regards
vidyasundar

tring tring tring tring ( ringing Bala's mobile)

recorded voice....... nengal thodarbu kollum vadikayalar IL sil busyaga irupadhal tharchamayam thodarbukolla mudiyadhu dhayavu seydhu siridhu NATKAL kalithu muyarchi seyavum ( in ARABIC)........ the subscriber you are calling is busy in IL please try again later or never................. just kiddin

Dear Bala,

Im the personal secretary of my hubby. i reply his mails(not to his i reply his mails) SMS and set remainders for his jobs and remaind him. I spoon feed him(food) while he watches TV.

thusday evening he parks two things his car in the basement and himself on sofa. both will be started on saturday morning. what i mean to say is basically he is a lazy person (only at home).

i asked him to join IL you know what he said (which I expected) that I should register on his name and do posting on behalf of him it seems...........

regards
vidyasundar

HI Srini,

I also sit after sending my hubby and daughter. But time flies.
Let us all enjoy as much as we can. Those who are here for a long time, i am sure their hubby's are good, if they are bad, then you are not here for long.

So, once again, let us enjoy being in IL forum.
Thanks Srini,
Bala

Originally Posted by Sriniketan

Thanks Bala for starting this thread.
As Sunkan has pointed out this is a family by itself.
How do I manage my husband and kids-----usually i log on to the computer only after he leaves for his work. the tricky time is usually be the time in the afternoon, when he comes for lunch. I don't know whether this is a coincidence or what, whenever I am about to post something or reading and interesting article, he comes.
What to do, i had to close and go,
Don't think of him to be harsh--- he is a soft spoken guy who knows I am on the computer before he came and asks me no questions!
I had also passed many information from IL to him to which he listens.
my younger daughter even recommended this site to her friend's mom.

sriniketan

Hi Shanvy,

You are really gr8. I feel addicted for IL forum. How do you manage with so many forums and so many things. Are you a teacher?

You are fast, active and i can see that you are occupied full time with all this and you write in almost all sub forums, i really appreciate you for this and also you reply to all of them almost. I cannot keep track of my own thread. I sometimes feel like i get lost when i login to IL, running here and there, reading what suits my mind and replying to few and forget to reply to the thread i start......

Thats good and your memory is very very good.

For you, its good that veda also is here always. So both of you keep enjoying here.

Bala

Originally Posted by shanvy

hi bala,

Thanks for mentioning my name .. I am not talented as you put it out there...just life goes on ....and just what it doles out... sometimes share from my experiences...(looks i have to thank god for being a good teacher..)

Well the question you have put here...veda used tell me before that i am addicted to my forums...well they are many..concerned to finances, real estate and educational sites....anything..where i feel i can learn..i am there..even in cnet.com....where i learn a lot..

But for the past one year, he knows that i can manage a lot of things....and help others and he attributes that to my exposure both print, media and the internet...infact when i crib about my internet and library expenses .he tells me not to worry...

As for Indusladies...well you all know... we have found lot of friends....

HI Latha,

You are in my boat. So i know what is happening your side. Please try to give the computer for sometime to Krishna and athim.

You once told that i am glued to the computer, now you understand what happens.

Bala

Originally Posted by latamurali

Hai friends

I enjoyed all ur replies and VIDYA ur writing have become very very funny to read now-a-days and i really enjoy and burst out of laugh ..thank u yaar, i like laughing always.......

And, i want to share my daily routine here:

I used to finish off cooking cleaning moping etc etc by 8.30 and my hubby and son will leave by 8 itslef so after 8.30 i will have my second coffee and will start to my gym and will be there atleast till 11( all will ring me if i dont go there, since i will be joking all non-sense!!!for the whole time and make them to laugh, so without my presence they will really cry!!! really yaar perumaikaga sollalie)

And from gym i will finish off my other works, like going to bank,post office etc and then i will go straightly to my athai's house -, me, my athai, her DIL , cute little baby and even athimber(athai hubby) we all will chat all the matters NO BELL AND BRAKE .no limits to our talk, discuss all matters ............and only around 12.30 or even 1 (without heart) i will start from that place (at times, i will have the lunch with them , i luv my athai's food)

Then even i may go to my chitpas place near by my athai place and jus say hai to all of them and come back and have lunch with my mom and younger sister or alone watching tv 9 ANYHOW, MY MOM WILL GIVE ME WHATEVER SHE MAKES AND MY ATHAI TOO) ............i will be eating GRAND LUNCH almost daily...........jus side dish i will get yaar........i luv to eat with different side dish.......and i too giv e them..really

Iamvery much fond of books, i will be stocking that(my athai used to get alllll..........books) will read for sometime till 2.30 and have short nap till 3 and my son will come...............will have big argument and fight with him for anything and everything.............servant will come....folding clothes.putiing coffee.............meeting my neighbours outside..............will take krishna to his karate class and i will go for walk nearly 5kms( in that walking groundi really have lot of friends all mama, mami, patti, kutti paiyan, kaikari karan......verkadalai karan........and all others ....). atlest 3 days a week and then directly to buy vegetables and snacks for krishna.......while returning to house............i will be stopped atleast by 10 people asking me this and that(iam born ,brought up and settled down in same place, so everybody knows me and my family very well) krishna will got irritated and shouts at me always for this.......amd i amy also go to someother friends place to know about their wherabouts or..........FOR URVAMBU............even we can say ulaga vishayatha discuss panna...bcos my friendmami is in BJP party, ex-counsellor , so she will give me all matters!!!!!!!!!.....

Jus opposite to my house, i have my mama, athai and chitpa's house and in next street another mama, athai and all relatives in and around my area.

BUT AFTER JOINING INDUS LADIES I STOPPED ALL MY ACTVITIES ......from 8am to 11pm .iam jus sitting in IL , beleive me or not, jus inbetween willgo and finish house hold chores without heart...and come back.....my athai and her DIL talking to me over phone asking me what happended , y iam not coming to theirplace and other relatives they got me in internet and asking about me, someother came to my house directly to see..what has happened for me..........and IF MY HUBBY COMES FROM OFFICE I WILL JUS SPEND MY TIME WITH HIM, AND JUST SIT BESIDE HIM.......TALK AND DISCUSS WITH HIM ALL FAMILY MATTERS.............BUT NOW JUST GIVING HIM HIS DINNER AND I WILL COME AND CONTINUE MY POST......MUNNADI ELLAM ENGA ATHUKAR COMPUTER LA TIME SPEND PANNUVAR...I WILL BEG HIM TO COME TO SLEEP , HAVE FIOOD ETC..NOW HE IS BEGGING ME...........

so, my hubby have plan to take me to doctor to treat my addiction or do something to stop me from browsing IL for the whole time, i really got addcited, i used to call my friends and chat with them discuss with them all matters, now, iam not talking to them or if i talk or chat , that will be with shanvy or rajmi or somebody.......SO MY FRIENDS ARE ANGRY WITH ME............

My hubby is hppy in one way, that iam nogt nagging him to take me her and there, even in holidays, since iam fully occupied with IL...........

SO IL HAS BECOME MY ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING............CHITRAMAM IS MY ATHAI ,SHANVY IS MY SISTER,RAJMI MY NEIGHBOUR AND CLOSE FRIEND,VIDYA IS MY YOUNGER SISTER,.MALSPIE MY FRIEND,SUNKAN MAM MAM ,ARUNARC,HUMA,NISHCEL SIR,PRABA,KANAKA,AABHI,////////////////////ALL ....................BECAME EVERYTHING FOR ME.

THANK U BALA, FOR TELLING ABOUT THIS IL

THANK U VERY MUCH, MY MODERATORS..........

Thank u so much for all my friends of IL.................

Sorry for boring you , thank u very much for ur patience.........

latamurali

Great indeed ladies, We all sail in the same boat. My hubby is always showing a (idhu uruppadathu ) feeling, whenever I open and post views. I told him strongly, that I will pursue with my interests just as he can't stop preaching. I am glad I made my friend join this forum.

Me too is addicted to this forum . You can always find my name tops the users ever online list.

Hi bala,lata adn all my friends,

You are very lucky to have that much time to sit with illites.

Before IL,lata..... I enjoyed reading your shcedules. But now worthful time spending.

I am also the same opinion like you about our Shanvy, Sunkan,Vidya, Chitvish,subbutr, Krishnamma........................................ .....

But , I am little different, My hubby left home at 6.30, upto that i am busy for him. I have to drop and pick up my daughters from schools and tutions, no way to skipping from that. After nine, banking posting, sometimes temples................10.30 or 11 at home.For me, after hubby and kutties,if i saw my sewing machine , finish.........I forget the whole world for atleast 2hours. Sometime my elder one will tell Mamma nowadays this types of dresses are in fashion or color combinations are fashion. My small one is very much fond of designer skirts and sleeveless tops. If they are going to their friends parties they also ask them about their new outfits. So my daughters always give me the lovable job.So i have to go for shopping for material ,threads beads.....

Sometimes i couldnot reply or give opinion. I feel very bad this.But regularly i go through all our friends post. But little delayed reply will be there.

I am full time login only.Regular member but not an active member. That's all.

But i am fully in touch with our IL.

Thank you for sharing your feeling ,

regards

SHREESUNDARAM

Hubby shouts becoz of indus ladies forum................
ohhhhhhhhhh noooooooooooooo in my case it is not the poor darling hubby it is my son who is shouting in my case.
Mom what are you doing in that forum the whole day?? what do you do there??
But now he too has stopped becoz it is of no use at all.
From the time I came to Egypt use to feel so bored just never knew what to do one of my dear friend Vrinda recommended me to this site and LOL from that time I am on this the whole day almost.
I pack my son at 7 am and hubby at 8:30 am. when making lunch for them I make more so that I can have it during lunch. After they go, I have all the time in the world just for me, As soon as they go finish off all the work and there I am on IL.
My hubby is happy that I am doing something. As he is a person who speaks very little it will be me who is doing blah blah everytime.
Yes this is indeed has become a huge loving family to me I always get someone or the other online here, and the articles written in here wow they are so helpful and interesting we all speak out our problems and happiness we laugh, feel sad we can get all the feelings here.

Dear Latha you have mentioned so beautifully all the relations in this forum. It is nice to know you did so many things and meet so many people during the day. But now too you are enjoying yourself with another set of family and friends

In the beginning I use to have my breakfast so late around 11am and all when I joined IL but now I finish it off with my hubby at 8am with him so that I sit more on IL. As I am reading in IL I keep chatting with friends too and go on telling them what all is happening in IL. I am really addicted to it. But on Friday's try not to open IL as to spend time with both of them. But get an opportunity here I am today had some time so just peeped in and found this interesting thread.

Shanthi you are really active ya peeping into so many sites you are to quick. I am a slow reader it takes some time for me. After I finish with IL I sit and read some books or do my hobbies. I make simple cooking in the morning but have full meal in the evening. As both of them are at home only in the evening.

Hi Vidyasundar did Bala call you back????????????? I think she is still busy on IL hahahahahaha that was really cool
Love you all Indua ladies and to have such wonderful friends around.